The world of Dating

So things have changed and are even more confusing now. On all of the dating apps and sites are happily married men. I don't understand why they are even there. If you are happy then you should not be on a dating site for single men. This trend is strange but it seems to be very popular. Like here in San Francisco you can meet a man that is happily married but still wanting to hook up with you. They only want NSA which is strange to me overall. Why be in a relationship with someone that you don't have sex with? Its just friends and cuddling? really? When did this happen and why are people online looking for things that you get in a relationship in a hookup? I know people straight and gay that are married and unhappy but still. They love their partners and so they stay unhappy but still willing to give it a go. I think honesty is the best policy in relationships. My last one was full of lies and excuses and it was sad. Why are people scared to speak the truth? Real talk is real talk you might not want to hear it. But it needs to be said and that is real talk. Feelings may be hurt and you may get your heart broken. But you will be better off for it. I didn't realize that so many freaks are out here in the dating world. Picky assholes that want perfection. Religious assholes that are lost and can't find their way between being happy. What they think is happiness and what they want out of life. The men that are not even out and want a relationship in the darkness. Hello I'm not eighteen and the doors just popped open. Men confused about their sexuality are tricky and usually they end up with a girlfriend and a man to play on the side. The worst are the men that try to force chemistry on you. Asking for kisses when kisses are not even a thought in the back of your head. Its true every now and then you will meet someone on the same level as you and its magic. But that is rare and it doesn't happen every day. Everyone today seems to be wanting NSA and it sad. Disconnected from the world and living in their own world of no strings attached. Some of us want a bit more than just a piece of gristle. I notice that standards and morals are on an all time low. I think that's why its so hard these days to meet someone of substance. People seem to be nice to a point then they lose interest. I'm not excited to jump back out there in a sea of whores and players. I find myself in shallow waters at the moment and no interest in going on the deep end of the Sea. Maybe I will see a shiny pretty fish that will lure me to the deep. Or maybe I will sit here in the shallow waters and enjoy watching with a good book and my libations.