Anal? Really?

After this week's episode of Kandi Koated Nights. The topic was have you ever dated a down low brotha? or sista for that matter.. But this topic is not about that but about what we were discussing in the chat room. A lot of the women were saying no to anal sex and asking if there was a way to tell if a man is on the downlow. The answer is no there is no way to tell he could very masculine. I don't understand why straight people are so boring and act like they don't know about kink. From what I have seen straight people love anal as much as gays do. So don't front on the funk baby. The one thing that needs to be taught to straight people is to fucking douche. Don't even go near that asshole if it hasn't been flushed out and cleaned. You hear me knocking? Good go buy a hose for the shower or you can do it the hard way. Buy some Fleet Enemas and keep it moving. Every woman I know has their men begging for anal sex. But yet they can sit up and turn their noses up at gays. You better buy a damn clue and wake up to reality. Men are men straight or gay that love anal and not just on their partners but on themselves as well. Sexuality is like a rainbow so many things exist in it. I know some straight men that are 100% straight but they love anal play. They will have a dildo and use it on themselves. Those are the smart men that know about douching. Just because you like something up your ass doesn't mean you want it to be with a man. Its strange but its true that these men are straight and like it. They are not attracted to men at all but they have a deep itch in the bowels of that ass. That only a dildo will reach and satisfy to the fullest. A lot of straight men like gay men like their salad's tossed. If you don't know what that means I will break it down to you. It means they like their asses eaten out a.k.a. lick on that hole. Some women are open like some men are and they try new things. Its the prudes that want the light off and missionary style. They are scared to even climb on top and ride it. That is the boring sex that only a select few like. Don't be mad when your man leaves that ass for a more freaky partner. I'm not saying you have to be all kinky but you should have a little kink in the bedroom. Spice things up and keep it moving. More women are giving into their man's fetish to fuck them in their ass. I have a friend who's boyfriend just slipped in into her ass. He really hurt her and didn't even care really. The ass is different from the pussy you can't just stick it in. You have to take it nice and slow and get that muscle to relax. Then you can go all Rambo on it once its nice and relaxed..Classes need to be taught to straight people if you are going to do it do it right. Start with the douching...

The lovely game of Tag

So I notice that most men and women want you to chase them. I don't have time to be chasing after anyone at all. If there is a vibe both people should be putting in the work if you want to get to know that other person. I won't be saying any names but if I don't say hello the people then they never speak at all. They can go fly a fucking kite as far as I am concerned. If I say hello to you and we start to have a conversation. Don't think that I am going to say hello to you every single time. There are rules to follow when dealing with new people dating or not. It also applies to friends or new friendships as well. It takes two people to have a relationship. It also take  some dedication to make the time to call,text or visit a friend. People will make that excuse they are too busy to call or text. It only takes a few minutes to make a call. A text only takes a few seconds so there is no real excuse not to contact someone. Its true life is there and we all have to live ours but in the same breath. Make an effort to talk to those friends in your life. As far as the dating world goes they only get a call or two at the most. If they don't call you after that erase that number and keep it moving. Chasing someone is not a good look even if you like them. The feelings need to be mutual and they need to be open to it as well. Sometimes the timing is off with someone they may be with someone else or just busy. Still if its meant to be it will happen no need to stress over any piece of gristle. I use to be that one always saying hello but those days are over. So you bitches that never say hello you can keep that hello. If both people are making the effort the friendship or courting can start and it can be fun. If they are not scared of the sweat then keep it going. If they are not giving you the time of day. Then its time to clean some house. You hear me knocking? Then let me the fuck in....

Greed

We see it all the time someone will start a small business and then it will blow up. For instance I am talking about Netflix it was great for those few years when it was gaining speed. Don't try to fix something that ain't broke leave it be. They are the reasons for video stores went out of business. Blockbuster is copying Netflix and now they have almost the same service. But do you remember that they don't give gay couples health benefits? It was a big thing back in the day that they were so scandalous. I would never shop or subscribe to Blockbuster they can kick rocks with open toed shoes. I would understand if Netflix was offering something new and being the leaders in that field. They should try to come up with something that is all them. They want to charge people more for the same shit that they had years ago. You don't pay more for the same brand you pay more if it improves. They lost half of their customers to the greed and now they are suffering. I can tell you those people won't be returning they will be hurting now. Some new company will rise and take Netflix's place and hopefully they will be smart about the choices they make. In the end Netflix is looking like a damn fool for being so damn greedy. They are running around trying to fix something they can't fix. I left them over a year ago and won't be back. If they can offer something new and exciting then maybe I will take another look. Still the prices are high and you have to choose if you want dvd's shipped to your house. If you're a tech person you will want to watch Blu Ray movies and that plan is also expensive. Netflix wants to do away with all dvd's and Blu Ray discs and just be all streaming. The old fashioned people were bitching but the cloud is the way we are heading. Soon everything we want will just be a mouse click away..

Marriage The anwser to happiness for Hetro's

They want to keep us from achieving the same things as them. That being marriage but if you look in black magazines like Jet for instance. The black community along with the rest of the world and America for that matter. Focus on marriage its what little girls are taught from an early age. Looking through the Jet magazine there is a section for people that have been married and people getting married. Hetro's think that marriage will solve all their problems and that is not the case. With over half of marriages ending in divorce they need to rethink jumping the broom. Yet they say its all about them and we can't share in the glory of marriage. The women are blind they think that after that ring is on the finger. That the cheating will stop and they will live happily ever after. Which is some bullshit and that's when the wife will call 1-800-GO JERRY. Its obvious they don't know a damn thing about gays. Its hard for us to even find a damn boyfriend let alone someone we will want to spend our lives with. I'm not saying it can't happen I'm just saying most gay men are weak and don't want to stick around when it comes to that. The NSA thing is so popular now and its sad that its come to that. Anyway I digress, marriage should be for anyone who wants it. They seem to forget it was created for tax purposes only. But of course religion had to go stick its fucking nose where it doesn't belong. Just because you get married in a church doesn't mean the church is running shit. Marriage should be for anyone that is two adults that want to do it. Its hard enough just finding love or anyone to have a decent conversation with. In the words of B.Scott" Don't let loneliness drive you into the arms of someone who doesn't deserve you in the first place. I second that fucking emotion and its the truth no one should ever settle because they are alone. In a world of players, whores, leeches, and no good down right walking sperm machines. Its hard to find a good man you hear me knocking? There is a shortage of a good man out there. So when you find someone that you want to spend your life with. Sitting on the porch holding hands then do it I say do it. Get married and if those bitches don't like it. Tell them to kiss the deepest part of that ass...

Strictly Business

Dealing with people at work that you can't stand the sight of. We have to keep it strictly business and not get personal with them. We are forced to deal with them on the daily because we work with them. People from all walks of life and from all over the globe. This is where most people learn about people that are different from them. You have heard me talk about the crazy racist bitch that I have to deal with on the daily. She is cheap, rude,racist and crazy as a loon. Its not like I could speak my mind to her and tell her how I really feel. When she first moved into the building where I work. I was nice to her and tried to have conversations with her. Well I got to know exactly what kind of person I was dealing with not too long afterwards. She complained that I was being too personal with her. Because she was going out one night and I told her that she looked nice. Now that bitch can be covered in flame and I would not lift a finger to help put her out. Her friends are as rude and racist as she is and I am tested when they come by to see her or pick her up. I have said this before and I will say it again. I never have and never will kiss anyone's ass at all. I don't care what position you hold or who you are in this world. She expects along with her friends for me to bow down and be like a slave in slavery times. That won't be happening ever and she is not happy about that at all. As the year is getting closer to the end it will be time for Christmas bonuses. All the other tenants take good care of us but the one crazy bitch is another story. Now remember how I told you we are not allowed to be personal with her right. Well she always gets us these cheap personal gifts at Christmas time. My manager has said he will say something to her but I don't know if it will work. I will be saying something to her but of course not at 100%. I don't want to lose my job so I will break it down on a Disney level that she will understand. When I say cheap I will explain what we normally get for Christmas from this cheap bitch. First off she will get us some sparkling grape juice. What is that two ninety nine? Some crackers, a book that we would not even pick up at a bookstore. She will pick a book that she would like to read. That would be the book she gets for us. Last but not least which is something that we would use but she is so cheap what can you get with this? Its a twenty five dollar gift card for Whole Foods. Have you been to Whole Foods? Its a nice store but its expensive as hell so that twenty five dollars won't really cover shit. I know some of you are saying we should be grateful right. Well what she gives us compared to the other tenants is mere cents. My manager has told her that the other tenants give us cash or check for our bonuses. So we will wait to see what will happen at that time. What I want to tell her is she will be in a fucking home soon enough so it won't matter.

Eyes Wide Shut

I can understand that some of these women ain't never squirted. Busted a hard hard nut until that dog came along and hit the bottom of that pussy. Now their nostrils are wide open and they are giving their all to this dog. He knows he has her as soon as he found the bottom of that pussy. Now she will do whatever it takes to keep him fed, fucked and happy while she is arching that back. Women are emotional creatures and if a man is hitting it just right they catch feelings for his sorry ass. Even if they know he is a dog they still fall  because he is laying that dick right on time. They will sale those food stamps to get some money to give to him. Open those eyes ladies or you will be looking like a damn fool up on Maury. With that " You are not the father" bullshit. Is it worth you losing yourself over some dick? even if its good dick that hits the bottom of that pussy. Its so sad to watch Maury and see all these low rent bitches getting played. Black and white its all the same damn thing. She let him in and he destroyed it and put it back together again. Now she is hooked on that dick and hooked on busting that nut that he provides her. She can try to do it herself but its not the same thing is it? Some of these bitches are too proud to use a toy. So they will suffer until he can get back and take care of business for them. They would give all those kids away if he would stay and take care of that pussy for them. Bending over backwards to keep the house clean and him well fed. So he can perform magic tricks on that pussy and ass. Don't play yourself over some dick or pussy please. It makes you look weak and needy so move on to the next. Make sure they are not playing you a warm bed to sleep in. I know you get that check on the first and fifteenth of every month. Just don't be tricking it off on him because he is hitting that shit. Feed those babies and pay the bills...

Don't Throw Those Rocks in Glass Houses

I see people are so damn judgemental about other people. They will try to hold you down man and they are not saints. I don't get how you could be all up in someone's business. But your own shit is not right or tight. Get that money right get things in order in your own damn life. Worry about those kids you birthed and pay your damn bills. Stop worrying about what I am doing and who I am fucking. Those who have the widest mouths are the ones with a shit load of skeletons in their closets. People will hate on you because of the way you look. Or they simply just like to hate on people because their lives aren't what they should be. Don't be mad at me cause shit ain't going right in your life. With the way the media is today people want to see when people are down and out. It seems they get a thrill out of when someone is hurting and make fun of them. If only there was a reverse some shit button to push. If you can't stand the heat get out of the fucking kitchen. Those who dish out the drama and get off on other people's misfortune. They are the bitches that would not last five minutes under the spotlight. Have you ever had a collections agent call you and try to go off on you? You have to be a shady type of person to work for a collection agency. We all go through good and bad times and sometimes it can't be helped. Most people in those types of jobs can't handle if you throw it back into their faces. They will run like a true bitch would fast and in a fucking hurry. No one should be judging anyone on anything that does not have a thing to do with them. That goes from fucking and sucking to swinging on a pole. We all have to make a living and if you are a lady or man of the night. Then that is what you are but its not for someone to talk shit about. Got a roof over your head? Food on the table? Bills paid and in order? Then you are doing alright in my book. Until you live a lifetime in someone's shoes have a big cup of shut the fuck up. Worry about what you will do with your life and stop worrying about sally mae and them. Anyone who says they are perfect has mental issues because no one or thing is perfect. We can strive to be the best we can be but its a work in progress. Those of us that are open to it will continue to grow. those bitches that are not open are stuck on fucking stupid. Feed those kids you birthed and wash your ass and worry about what's going on in your life. Not who skeeted up in Sha-nay-nay because she ain't thinking about your ass at all. Yes you may read the bible backwards and forward but that don't make you any better than anyone else. As I said before you can't buy your way into heaven. So remember that when you are looking down your fucking noses at people. That don't think like you think and don't believe in what you believe in.

The Misadventures of the Magic Pussy

Its funny to me that straight women think that all the answers are in their pussy. I don't know how many straight women are attracted to me and say. Are you sure? I could change your mind! Yeah right that won't work on me. I can understand it working for a straight man but not a gay man. I get for a straight man that pussy can rule the world. If the pussy is smart and doesn't get played out. But in other news a.k.a the real world that doesn't happen with gay men. Its strange to me that straight women boil it down to they can solve being gay with their pussy. Just so you know pussy is a non factor for gays. The only pussy we know is the one we came out of. Other than that we don't want to smell it, touch it, lick it or fuck it, or even see it for that matter. I love women I do they are great but just not sexually for me. You can't turn someone straight or gay it isn't possible. Contrary to what the ignorant believe you are born either gay or straight. That's why its funny to me that straight people always say. That gays are recruiting straights to become gay. You can't make someone into something they are not. Respect them for who and what they are and go find some other piece of gristle. That's like me chasing after some straight man it's not going to happen. I have no desire to be with or talk to a straight man in that way. Its a waste of time and energy for me so why do it. I always get from straight women " You don't look gay" Thanks ladies but I am gay and I'm flattered by the things you say. But that won't make me want to get into your pants or inside of you. I have seen straight women get mad when they are taken to a gay club. They see all these men they are attracted to and get no love. Well you are in a gay club so dance and have drinks with your gay friends. Remember you are not there to find a man you are there to have a good time. Tomorrow you can go to a straight bar and hunt for some dick. When I go to a straight bar I know its so different from a gay bar. I just enjoy the eye candy if there is any at all. I see things for what they are and I am not trying to change anything. Again gay people have been here from the start of man and we will be here until the end. It should not be a shock or anyone's business who is gay or not. Ask yourself this question could anyone who is attracted to you. Walk up to you and say hey are you sure? What would you tell them? That pussy is only magical to straight men and bull dagga's other than that it can wilt away and dry up in the gay world.

Stop Playing Yourself

Stop looking like a fucking idiot already, what is really going on? Is it worth you losing yourself for some dick or pussy? If you don't respect yourself no one else will either. I was watching Maury this morning and it was a show of fools. These women lose their minds over a piece of dick. That is being given out to anyone who wants it. I understand he made you skeet all over the place but damn. Is it worth you losing self respect and looking like a damn fool? Don't worry Shaniqusha you can find another thug that will put it down. Its sad for the women to act like that's the last piece of dick on the planet. If he is not the father keep it moving. All he wanted was a hit and run and I am sure it wasn't hard for him. To get you to drop those panties on the floor for him. Then getting mad at another victim for also falling on his dick. Don't get mad at her get mad at his tired ass. But first go to the clinic and get tested. You are laying on that back so the rent and bills get paid. Is that pussy worth a hundred dollar electric bill? Good pussy is priceless and no amount can be put on it. A woman with good pussy will give it to her man not for him to pay the bills. But because she loves him and wants to see him bust a nut. After he makes her bust hers for sure. Don't think I'm letting the men off so easy either. There are some weak ass men out there playing themselves for a place to stay. They will give that dick out for a warm place to sleep. This type of weak man depends on weak minded dick hungry women to prey on. There are plenty of them out there just begging for some dick. Someone to touch that tit and rub on that clit. As long as the pussy is getting attention they are happy. You see those big gals walking around half naked with the tits hanging all out. Those are the ones that got a hold of some dick. Some man fucked the shit out of them. Now they are showing out with no self respect at all for themselves. We all get played at some point but that can't be helped. I'm talking about the ones that know they are being played. All for that piece of gristle they will play the fool. These men and women being reduced to cum freaks. All they care about is who will make them skeet. They want to skeet all the damn time and don't care who makes them do it. Some of these people live to be played and they enjoy it. We all know someone that was or is dating a dog or street walker. They stay because the sex is good and that's all they care about. They got caught up with having feelings for the person playing them. The person playing them knows this and gets all kinds of shit from them. Breakfast cooked in the morning, Bills payed in full, Cars purchased for them all over some dick or pussy. People that get turned out are seeing stars in their eyes. They got skeeted up in their throats or ass. Now they are wide open and begging for more no caring what price they pay at all. Like I said we all have been played on some level but we didn't know until it was too late. But to be openly being played and not caring.. You are a damn fool over a piece of gristle.

Ignorance

I was watching a show I don't normally watch the Bad Girls Club. The Persian bitch on the show doesn't understand homosexuality. She doesn't believe in it and she is out and out homophobic. One of the other girls in the house is a lesbian and the Persian bitch likes calling everyone a faggot. The lesbian girl stepped to her and told her that she was being disrespectful and she should not use that word. Well that Persian bitch doesn't care and she continues to use the word. I'm not normally for violence but sometimes people need their asses kicked to learn to show some respect. Just because you don't believe in something doesn't mean it does not exist. This goes back to her being a product of her parents. Them not teaching her that all kinds of people are in the world. Listen up people if you are for or against gays it doesn't really matter. We are here and we are not going anywhere. So fucking get over it already and show some respect. I always here people saying I want to be accepted. I could care less about being accepted really. You better damn well respect me or there will be a problem. That lesbian should have shoved her fist so far down that Persian's bitches face. That she would never use that word again not around the lesbian. The same goes with the N word being used by all these young kids. I have dealt with this ignorance before when I use to work at a Steel Mill. With a bunch of ignorant straight men and it was a hard job to do. This one guy was saying the N word and I went off on his ass. I told him don't ever use that word in front of me. You won't disrespect me or you will be getting up off the ground. He said well so and so lets me say it. I said do I fucking look like so and so? get a fucking clue already. People will only do what you allow them to do. As I said before I am allergic to bullshit. I keep it one hundred percent real if you know me you know how I roll. I have never acted fake or kissed anyone's ass. Its not in my DNA to do that and I could not even if I tried. If its a work situation then judge me by the work I do. Because I won't be kissing anyone's ass to get ahead. If that sounds like the job you are working now get the hell out of there. Office jobs are the worse because those people are so boring and their lives are boring. They have to be getting all up into your business. Backstabbing and kissing ass is the laws of the land in that shitty job that you can do without. Ignorance is everywhere all you have to do is look around you. Its sitting right next to you in the next cubical. Or it could be that asshole boss of yours that full of drama. I know times are hard and its hard to find a good job. sometimes we get stuck but we don't have to play the game of politics. Once those fuckers know that you don't play they won't fuck with you. But if they do set an example with that ass so the rest of those bitches know who they are fucking with..

Never Given A Choice

Never given a choice in the matter as babies we are butchered. We are cut because of religious views and them saying its not clean. Its the way we were made its natural so why the cutting? Of course women don't have dicks and they just make a choice to cut part of the dick off. Some will say I want you to look just like your father. Its not like I will be walking around one day looking at my dad's dick. Saying yeah my dick does look like yours yeah right. More and more these days people are not doing it and leaving it up to the boy to choose. When he is a man he can make that choice. I understand if its for medical reasons like Phimosis then its needed. If a father is uncut and his son is as well he needs to teach the boy. How to clean it and keep it clean because you can get infections. America seems to have taken to the cutting of the dick in the fifties and its still on going. But a change has started and more and more boys are being left intact. The Muslim people believe the uncut dick to be unclean as they say. But its natural so I don't get how it can be said to be unclean. As long as you wash it and keep it clean it should be fine. Again religion plays a big part in the reasons for the cutting of the dick. Some of us are fascinated by the uncut dick and want to know more about it. I use to be scared of uncut dick because some of them are not clean. With one whiff you can be knocked unconscious and be laid out of the ground. I dated a guy that was uncut and he had like four inches of foreskin and he had Phimosis. It looked like a old sock slumped over and he had to use a q-tip to clean it. The skin was so tight he could not pull it back at all. I told him to go to a doctor he needed to be circumcised. Someone that I know was dating a guy that also had Phimosis and he went to the doctor. They removed the foreskin and he had two lumps under the head. They were non cancerous so he was lucky. Talking to women they don't even notice if their men are cut or uncut. They don't really pay attention to those things. Unless it looks like one of the sand worms from the film Dune. Then they can say yes my man is uncut for sure. The world is uncut except for America and the Muslim people around the world. So usually outside of America we will get a sexy accent along with the foreskin. Some people don't like uncut and some do its the way we were born. Its natural and its the way things were before all of the cutting and snipping began. Back before toothbrushes and deodorant, tampons and soap people had to really like you and your smells. The funk of your breath and your body all together. I'm glad I wasn't born in those times I could not imagine not being clean. So mother's out there if you have a son give him the choice. Don't make it for him let him choose if he keeps everything intact.

Wake Up Parents

Parents seem to have this idea in their heads that kids are dumb. The parents are the ones who are dumb. Teach your kids about the ways of the world or they will have problems later on. Thinking that they don't know about sex is stupid because they know all about sex. They learn from the other kids at school and they experiment. So by the time you are ready to have that talk with them. They will already be well into having it and maybe even pregnant. I understand protecting kids from bad things in the world. But teach them that the world is full of different people. The brainwashing continues with parents wanting their kids to wait to have sex. Until marriage but that is not reality at all. Kids go though puberty and they have sexual feelings as well. I was talking to a friend of mine who has a kid and we were talking about this issue. I told her that her son who is now ten gets erections. She was so shocked when I told her that she thought he would not get them until he was a man. I told her that he has been getting erections from the time he was born. A male will get erections all the time from a baby until he is dead and gone. I thought it was crazy that she didn't know that at all. Of course I'm talking about body functions not being sexual. Still she didn't know anything about it. I know its hard to keep a family together so its normally a single parent. That is raising kids and it makes it harder on the parent. Still if its a two parent household or a single parent household. A family is a family and all go though the same things with raising kids. The way of the brainwashed is to stay a virgin until they get married. Then have a horrible night when they get married. Because they don't know anything about sex. That is not the way the world works but its an idea of those who believe it. The more you shelter your kids the harder it will be on them and you. Teaching them right from wrong is a start but you have to also teach them about the world. Parents want their dreams to continue in their kids. But they need to know that their kids will have their own dreams to follow. Let them be who they will be and be proud of them. Just teach them there are all kinds of people in the world. Gay, Straight, Black or White we all live here together. Don't be afraid to have a real talk with your kids. If you don't teach them someone else will or something bad could happen. Teach them that no one is better than anyone else. No racism sadly parents pass their hate onto their kids. Nothing is worse than an ignorant racist spewing hate. Parents the way your kids behave and interact with the world. Is a reflection on your parenting and how you think. So think about that when you are teaching them something.

Walking Mattresses and Cum Sponges

They are still giving it away if you pay for it or not. Someone is always up to no good giving away Jawbone,Asshole,Pussy or Dick. They may not walk the streets at all hours of the night. But they are still hookers and peddle their used up flesh to the masses. Its funny to me when I see someone that is always online. Hooking up with someone say that their ass is tight. I can understand the if someone gets horny and wants some action. We are all human, I'm not talking about the regular folk. I'm talking about the cum sponges that are hooking up all the damn time. Has anyone ever had a hooker or porn star try to hook with them? They will say something along the lines of" I won't charge you" first of all. No one should have to pay for sex. I understand that straight men and women play that game. You spend money on me and take me to dinner. Then I will give you some pussy if you act right. That is still a hooker in my eyes you don't know that man. But if he buys you some Lobster and buttered bread. You will spread those legs and let him have the pussy. So it only cost him the price of a dinner to run up in those guts. That means that pussy is only worth sixty dollars or so. That's a damn street walker and it sad that woman fall for it. I know straight men don't get sex like a gay man does. So they are always thirsty for some pussy and it shows. They get excited over some used up dry broke down to the side pussy. In the gay world sex is on the menu first and a gay man will ask you right off the bat. If you are down with that sort of thing. Sleeping with a walking mattress then chances are you will be going to the clinic. Sadly I won't name any names but some of you are always looking to hookup.  Give that Jawbone, Asshole, and Dick some rest those parts will thank you for the down time. Again this town like many others are geared towards being single. I'm single but I'm not some cum sponge giving away all of my goods. Sex is right up in front in the gay community and its sad. Its all about being young and of course having sex. I'm not interested in twinks and I don't want to have sex with them. Of course these hookers watch porn and they want to be the main bitch. The spotlight is shinning right on their ass and its pushed up into the air. They want to be stuffed a both ends and begging for more. Bitch you are not the paid hooker in the film. You are just a broke down hooker that wants to be that paid hooker. You are wondering what a Cum Sponge is? Its someone that sucks up the cum and wants more. Men and women can be a cum sponge a woman will be the one having a baby by a one night stand. That is a straight cum sponge a gay one is the ones you see with cum dripping out of their assholes. Or they love to drink cum you see them posting ads up all the time. They love the taste and smell of cum and can't get enough. There is nothing wrong again with getting your groove on. The problem is when you can't count how many sex partners you have been with. If you don't know then Houston we have a fucking problem. You are certified a true Walking Mattress or Cum Sponge. We have plenty walking around this city and I'm sure in whatever city you live in.

Friends and Friendly People

Friends how many of us have them? Friends ones you can depend on? That is a word that has to be earned not just given because I like you. I'm not asking you to be anything other than what you are. Don't change for me or for anybody else. If you don't like what you see keep it moving. Life is hard and people are busy but still it takes some effort. To remain in contact and make time to talk or hang out. People get married and have kids (fucking breeders) get boyfriends and girlfriends. Still life goes on a new job may take someone out of the state. If someone is meant to be in your life they will be. Years can pass and they may not been seen or heard from for awhile. But they will pop up and be back ready to continue the friendship. For some of us going though something with someone should normally make you closer. Its something that will bond you with that person but its not always the case. Some friends we have are just work friends. We are friendly with them at work but that is as far as it goes. I had a friend that I was close with at work but we never did anything outside of work. Then I moved up to the Bay Area and never heard from that person ever again. So I see where being friends with someone at work can just be that. Some people like to keep their personal lives separated. I don't like people getting in my business, if I want you to know something I will tell you. I don't like people that are obvious about getting in my business. The bottom line with people we work with is they are our second family. If you like them or not you see them all the time and have to interact with them. Just like our real families we have people in them that we don't like. We love them but we don't like them at all. Same thing with work and more so because you work with all ages and people from all walks of life. Its a good learning tool for people that are close minded. They can see that in spite of it all we are all the same. We all eat, shit, and sleep and life goes on.

Back At Square One

We grow and get smarter and wiser in life. But when we have our low points in our lives we forget or may be blown back to square one. Losing a job can be a very stressful thing and in this economy its hard. But what they don't tell you is not only do you knot have a steady paycheck coming in. That you will start to doubt your self worth and the self esteem will bottom out. I have been there like everyone else when you don't have a pot to piss in. Broken but still alive going through the motions of everyday life. Usually when we are in this state we tend to forget everything we have learned so far. Its like being a baby and learning to walk and talk again from baby steps. Many things can cause us to get back to square one. A death in the family or a bad breakup can do it as well. After the fact we start to rip and put together everything to find some relief. The only thing that can cure a broken heart or grief is time. We need time to heal and get back to where we were before all of the drama started. What can help when these things are people that actually care or what to see you get over it. It can be a stranger that will lift you up and make you feel like yourself again. Or it could be a close friend that is showing they love you and are there for you. Like I said before true friends will be there for you when you are in the darkest hour. They will help you find your way back to the light of life. I was always taught not to laugh at someone that is having a bad time. Its bad karma to kick someone when they are down. Its not something I would do and I don't wish any harm on anyone no matter if they were an asshole to me or not. I was talking to my friends about the bad breakup I had. I told them then despite the way I was treated I still loved him. My friend asked me how can you still love him? I told him I can't shut off the way I feel about someone. Even if they were dead wrong in the way they handled things. I could lie and say that I don't have any love for that person. But then I would be lying and I'm not good at lying. That's why I am direct with all things in my life. I wish I didn't love that person but sadly I do. I don't feel any love for that person but I know I do love him. Its part of the circle of life you love someone that doesn't love you back. I was sent back to square one on that one but now I'm back to where I was before all of that bullshit and drama happened. I have to say I'm glad to be away from all of that drama and deceit. We all have our low points in life that's the way the cookie crumbles. All we can do is jump to action and get to where we are going.

I Don't Want You

Why is it that straight men think that a gay man wants them? Why do you play like you are Barbara WaWa doing a 20/20 interview? Trying to get all up in your  business and not shameful about it at all. As I have said before sexuality is like a rainbow and many are curious. I don't get how some men call themselves straight. When they are getting their dicks sucked by men. Fucking a man in his ass but still they call themselves straight. Tranny Sniffers call themselves straight as well and they love that Tranny dick. Depending on if they had some fire water or are just feeling lovely. They will see a confident gay man and be attracted to him. They will get mad at being attracted to a man but still its there. They will start a conversation with the gay man and then the interviewing starts. The number one question they will stop you on the street. To ask you if you are gay? I will reply I'm not interested thanks. Then they always say I'm not gay! So I reply then why the fuck are you asking me if I am for? For the curious straight man its a game of cat and mouse. They may be married with some kids or have a girlfriend. Still something is missing in their lives and the know it. They will set themselves up to be in a situation with a gay man. Maybe they will say something like I hurt my back playing football. Can you give me a massage? That is one of the main tricks they use to get the gay man to give them attention. Most gay men don't even bother with straight men. They are good for moving some furniture or fixing your car when it breaks down. It takes a confident straight man to be friends with a gay man. He is secure in his own sexuality and his mind is open. It also takes a patient gay man to be friends with a straight man. Most straight people are clueless when it comes to the opposite sex. They don't even know when the other likes them. We are the ones that train them and help them get that dick or pussy. Then you have the men that see you and can't help but want you. They will come up to you and have to talk to you about something. Maybe they need directions or will talk about sports. They look for an opening and its so apparent. I am not attracted to straight men at all point blank period. Of course if I see some good looking straight man I will look. But that is as far as it goes for me. Why chase after something that you can't have? Even if you can have it it won't be for good. It will be a night of passion if that or ten minutes of lust. I have a friend I will call him Pepper he met a very sexy Italian man. This man was going around saying he was straight but he was very attracted to men. He knew that Pepper was feeling him but he acted like he didn't know. He was staying the whole summer and Pepper was happy because he was spending all that extra time with the Italian man. Anytime that Pepper got close he would always talk about his girlfriend back home. I don't get some people that want to use people. Knowing that they like them but pretending they don't know anything about it. Poor Pepper had fallen head over hills for this player. The player was hooking up with men but just not with Pepper and finally he got over him. He had fallen for this guy which is very dangerous. To be in love with a straight man is not good for the gay man or the straight man. I have had a straight man in love with me before. It could never go anywhere because we were in two different worlds. If you are curious you are curious don't front just be honest. That you are Bi-Curious which is a new word I recently learned. If you don't try you will never know right. Go find another Bi-Curious straight man and you can play house with him. Just leave the gay men alone because if they get too close. They could fall for you and it would be trouble.

The world of Dating

So things have changed and are even more confusing now. On all of the dating apps and sites are happily married men. I don't understand why they are even there. If you are happy then you should not be on a dating site for single men. This trend is strange but it seems to be very popular. Like here in San Francisco you can meet a man that is happily married but still wanting to hook up with you. They only want NSA which is strange to me overall. Why be in a relationship with someone that you don't have sex with? Its just friends and cuddling? really? When did this happen and why are people online looking for things that you get in a relationship in a hookup? I know people straight and gay that are married and unhappy but still. They love their partners and so they stay unhappy but still willing to give it a go. I think honesty is the best policy in relationships. My last one was full of lies and excuses and it was sad. Why are people scared to speak the truth? Real talk is real talk you might not want to hear it. But it needs to be said and that is real talk. Feelings may be hurt and you may get your heart broken. But you will be better off for it. I didn't realize that so many freaks are out here in the dating world. Picky assholes that want perfection. Religious assholes that are lost and can't find their way between being happy. What they think is happiness and what they want out of life. The men that are not even out and want a relationship in the darkness. Hello I'm not eighteen and the doors just popped open. Men confused about their sexuality are tricky and usually they end up with a girlfriend and a man to play on the side. The worst are the men that try to force chemistry on you. Asking for kisses when kisses are not even a thought in the back of your head. Its true every now and then you will meet someone on the same level as you and its magic. But that is rare and it doesn't happen every day. Everyone today seems to be wanting NSA and it sad. Disconnected from the world and living in their own world of no strings attached. Some of us want a bit more than just a piece of gristle. I notice that standards and morals are on an all time low. I think that's why its so hard these days to meet someone of substance. People seem to be nice to a point then they lose interest. I'm not excited to jump back out there in a sea of whores and players. I find myself in shallow waters at the moment and no interest in going on the deep end of the Sea. Maybe I will see a shiny pretty fish that will lure me to the deep. Or maybe I will sit here in the shallow waters and enjoy watching with a good book and my libations.

Do You

Be who you are born to be don't change for anybody. If someone doesn't like you for being yourself. They don't like you at all and its fine you will survive. Live your live and don't worry about what people say about you. I hear people saying oh I will change for this guy I like. That's a big mistake to change for someone to like you. No one is going to treat you the way you treat yourself. In school we are teased for things we have no control over. The way we look our ears,lips,nose,head or body. School is a bubble and those who mature fast usually don't look good by the age of thirty. I was a late bloomer and nerd so it took some time for me to mature. The ugly duckling stage really I had braces, zits and was a bean pole. I wore those ugly plastic glasses that sat crooked on my face. Being called ugly all the time and I was painfully shy. Well jump forward and now I'm fully matured and I don't look anything like I did when I was a teenager. It took me some time to get it together. But I did get it together and never really cared about what people would say about me. In school they make up all kinds of lies about people and most of the time its all lies. According to the kids I went to school with I was having sex in alleys. I didn't even know what sex was back then but I was having it according to them. Gay kids have it the worse or even if they think you are gay they give you a hard time. We are called every name in the book and treated badly. Still those of us who grow up and make it to adulthood. We have tough skin and don't take any bullshit. We had enough as a kid growing up. No one will ever make me feel bad for who am I or what I am. I have a high regard for myself and I always will. I have always marched to the beat of my own drum. I was always a leader and never a follower. If you work at McDonald's or Burger King its still a job. People like to look down on other people for the job they have. A smart kid will not care and will be making that money. Those who are not happy in life will always try to start some shit. You can say whatever you want to say I could care less. Unless that person walks in your shoes for a lifetime. They can shut the fuck up and worry about their own business. Its sad that today's news is more worried about embarrassing some celebrity. I could not imagine having a bad breakup and it be all over the news and internet. Than to worry about world events that need to be addressed. It seems like the media gets off on people's despair and bad luck. Just remember to have good people around you with good energy. Get rid of all the drama in your life and you will be thankful. We all have or have had someone in our lives that needs to go. So do some cleaning and keep it moving...

Blaming Gays for Earthquakes is silly...

So I just read that some religious freak is blaming gays for the earthquake in New York. Hell they blame us for all of the natural things that mother nature does. Its so stupid that they would blame gay marriage for the quakes. While straight men have been begging the women to let them fuck them in their asses since the start of man. Its funny to me that straight people think they can do whatever they want to do. But we can do what we want to do and then blame us for things that happen. Just go look at straight porn they bareback and they love anal just as much as a gay man does. They think because they also love pussy that its ok for them to do it. Ass is ass no matter how you look at it. Two people being together isn't going to set off an earthquake. Hell all the reality TV shows with straight people getting married just for fun. Shit the world should burn down just for that bullshit alone. Marriage is suppose to be so special then why do people do it on TV? Marriage was created for tax purposes and that's about it. If you love someone and want to be with them then be with them. Get some rings and a priest and have at it. There was a time when they said that the different colored races could not marry at all. Now we have so many interracial couples getting married and having babies. In about another fifty years or so everyone will be brown skinned and that will be the way of the land. We need to be worried about all of the happenings going on in the world. Try to figure out a way to stop these deadly earthquakes that kill thousands of people at a time. Stop pointing fingers at gay people we didn't cause any of the earthquakes. If we had that power the hateful homophobic assholes and republicans like Sarah Palin and the lot. Would fall into the earth never to be seen or heard from again. If we had that kind of power we would use it to make people act right. If they didn't they would get the special welcome from mother earth herself. I wonder if there are some prophecy for the men that cheat on their wives. In the churches fucking when no one is there. Or if that baby you told your baby's daddy was his child and it wasn't. If the earth was going to be destroyed for what man has done. It should have been a cloud of dust a long time ago. We are ants on this planet and who we love or fuck has nothing to do with it at all. Only someone who is weak minded  would blame someone for disasters all over the planet. Get a fucking grip and go see a doctor. I'm sure your life isn't squeeky clean so you can have a cup of STFU...

Skimming the surface

At first I didn't want to go see The Help at all because I don't like to see those times. When my people were really going through it with the racist bullshit. Those who have died and been hurt by it paved the way. Still things are far from what they should be and its going to take a long time before we get there. I saw the movie with my mother who is sixty one years old. She is from that era when it was still bad back then. I was a bit uneasy when we first got to the theater and it was full of all white people. Me and my mother were the only blacks in the theater at first. Then finally some more black people came into the theater to see the movie. People that don't live in this country always have something to say about racism and slavery. The thing is they don't live here and don't know our history. This country has a lot of shame for what they did to blacks as well as to the Indians of this land. Anyone who will deny that this country was built on the backs of slaves needs to go read some books. I was glad that the theater was full of whites after I thought about it. That movie only touched on the black women that worked in the homes of whites. It did not even touch on how a black man is treated here in America. Again its sad that you have to take African American Studies to learn the real history of this country. Like the bible the history books have what they want it to have in it. To tell a story a certain way for people to see. I prefer to hear the whole story the true story of things. At first the movie made me uneasy because I have read many of books about those times. I know how my people have been treated and still to this day are treated badly. In the same breath black people have to do better as well. We are the only race I know that is not united. If we were things would be a little better for us. Look at Obama he is the most disrespected President in all of history. All because he is a black boy and he got the top job. I like how they all came together in that movie and it showed the human heart. So many people are racist and its so stupid to hate a whole race. Its fine if its one person and they did you wrong. Hate that person but don't hate all of us for what one person did to you. Life is too short to be getting caught up in some bullshit. Someone I know said why are you so angry? I'm not angry its just life as a black man in America. We have the hardest job of all just being black. We have to work twice as hard as everyone else to get the same respect. I give respect to those women in the movie they were strong women. They had to be back in those times it was very hard on both black men and women. We still have not go to where we need to be. The Tea Party and the Republicans are out and out racist and don't hide it. I have never seen such hate and ignorance being played out in the news. Still a weak minded person will always say that its god's will that made them do this or do that. No you though of that all by your damn self.

Home Training

I noticed that when I was at the airport and on the plane. People will cough,sneeze and snort and not even cover their mouths. I had a man sitting next to me at the airport and he kept coughing. Not covering his mouth and I gave him the look of death. He then covered his damn mouth. I should not have to tell you how to  behave in public. That job goes to who ever raised you. Traveling is stressful enough without having to deal with people's bullshit. Going through the checkpoint is one of them but its for safety. Still its annoying as hell having to remove shoes and all other crap. Then to step into that machine that scans you and you show up naked. On a big screen for who knows to see it and all your goodies. Then having to sit on that plane for hours with the stale air. That seat sucks and then you have to deal with whoever you are sitting next to. Hopefully they have some home training or it can be hell on the flight. I was sitting next to two twelve year boys. Coughing and sneezing the whole time and not covering up their mouths at any point. The classic thing I have seen people do is dig in their ass then go to shake your hand afterwards. I don't know where they do that at but I don't do it. How about wiping your nose on the back of your hand. Then going to shake someone's hand? Bumping into someone or stepping on their shoes. You better say something to me or you will get cussed out. Crowded places like Costco is the worst place to run into them. I should say they will run into you with those shopping carts. There was a older black woman that was yelling at people to get out of her way because she was a senior citizen. Well when she got to me she said the same thing. I told her the only way you will get through here is to say excuse me. She said the magic words and I moved my cart for her. I always here people say they are stuck in the way they act. Like a rude ass fool is what it really is and its not right. I don't care who you are or how old you are. You will get cussed out or beat down if you sneeze and it goes on any part of my body. Those of you who smoke blowing it on people is rude. Show what you want to receive as in respect and manners. Its true to show respect to elders but if they are not showing it. I damn well won't show it back and I won't be kissing any ass either. If someone holds a door open for you say thank you. I'm shocked at how rude people act and it shows no home training at all. If you have small kids make sure they are not kicking the back of someone's seat. You the parent will be the one getting cussed out for real. If the kids don't know how to act in public please keep those brats at home. No screaming or running around causing chaos at all. I notice parent's let their kids just run wild and do whatever they want to do. In a park that's fine but not at the movies or when I'm eating.

Get Over It Already Damn

I keep seeing people saying I'm tired of gay shit. Well we are tired of your shit as well. We can't walk down any street and hold hands or kiss. You can so shut the fuck up already. Because of the Media and the Internet as well as Movies and TV Shows. Gays are now getting some spotlight time. We even have our own channel its only one but its a start. Straight people need to get over the fact that Gay people are here. We want to be happy just like everyone else does. We don't want any of the Devil's spawn running around you take care of that. Breeding every minute and over populating the planet. Do you remember when you could actually go somewhere and it not be crowded? Those days are long over with and its sad. We need to stop the Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses from breeding too much. People are trying to protect their spawn by keeping them in the dark. Knowledge is power and kids need to be educated. If you don't teach them at home they will learn at school. You would think that people would have learned that when you are very strict with someone. They will bust out and be a big ole freak in the bed. The people that are lost are the worst ones of all. If you want things your way go buy a damn island and live on it. Other than that you will have to deal with all kinds of people. We all need to get along we have to live together. People here in California can take a lesson from the Mid West. Well the part I'm from anyway people actually are nice and its a good thing. Still people all over have a problem with who and how you fuck. But in the same breath they can fuck their wives or girlfriends up their ass. Or beg to do it and its a double standard. Have you noticed that the straight men and women can do what they want? But because we are gay we are going to hell in a handbag. The only person that can tell you something is the creator himself. If you don't have that name tag on sit the fuck down. Worry about your kids and stinky pussy that needs to be cleaned out. Or worry about washing your skeeted up ass and brush those teeth. Pay a bill and get some rest but stop worrying about what I'm doing. I can tell you right now I don't give a rat's ass about what you do or who you do. When you walk a lifetime in my shoes then you can speak on it. Until then worry about you and yours. I have never cared about what people say about me. Say what you want it won't help you sleep better at night. I'm sleeping just fine at night and so should you. This is real fucking talk and I approve this message....

Hiatus

This is my last post for awhile please enjoy.  I will be gone out of town and I don't know if I will have time. Or wifi while I'm melting away back east so I will just say this. I will be back in the middle of August. Then I will be back with some new mojo for my fabulous blog. I'm thankful for my friends that read it and enjoy my banter. To all the new people reading my blog thank you.. This is me giving you my thoughts on things. I enjoy writing in my blog and will continue to do so. I have a lot to say can't you tell? I'm giving you a piece of me of who I am and how I feel. Until we meet again...

Broken Hearted

We all go through break ups some end mutually while others are bad. It sucks to have a relationship end if you both really loved each other. Its hard on both of the people that are involved and it takes some. To heal and get your happy back but still its normal to be depressed and sad. After all part of your soul is missing and the heart is broken. The spirit is hurt and only time can heal those things. It will show how much someone really loves you when its all said and done. By how they treat you in the end which is as important as it is at the start of things. If someone truly loves you they won't try to hurt you anymore than they can help it. The break up alone is very painful and depending on how things went in the relationship. Love is the most powerful force on the planet. Everyone wants it and some won't admit it. Either your running from it or running towards it trying to catch it. Love is rare and hard to find but its out there. Love can be an evil bitch but we still love it don't we? I thought getting rings and have a ceremony would mean forever. I was wrong on that count and wrong in the person I was with. Sometimes things just aren't right but we still love them anyway. That's what loving someone is all about. Loving them for them and their faults. I never thought I would be back in this position but most of us feel the same way. Damn how did I get back here to this very spot. I have to say I'm older and wiser now so I can handle things better than I ever did before. Still its painful and depressing at times you just want to cry. Trying not to think about that asshole that just broke your heart. The sad thing is you can't stop thinking about it really. Love had to die inside of us for us to get over it. But we can take our power back from that person that we fell in love with. If you didn't love them and wasn't in love with them. It would not hurt as much and you could just flick a switch. But it doesn't work that way we can't just turn our feelings on and off at will. Many of my friends are in various degree's of break up including me last year. I have to say it was the worse I ever had. Its a learning experience for sure. A hard lesson learned that made me stronger. I finally reached that point of getting all my power back from that asshole. Every day things get better and brighter for sure. It doesn't hurt to smile and its actually good to smile. No one deserves to be mistreated only love and respect should be there. Even if its over its over and there is no going back. But then again actions speak louder than any words could ever. How you are treated in the end will show you if that person truly loved you at all. Sometimes we get played like fiddle and its sad but we learn and we grow.

I love you..

Those are the first words we hear from the assholes who cheat. If you loved me motherfucker you would not have cheated on me in the first damn place. It was an accident yeah right it was an accident I gave your ass a chance to be with this. Then you turned around and slipped and fell on my best friend's dick. How did that fucking happen? Now your pregnant and on Maury trying to find out who the baby's daddy. I don't know about you but the worse feeling to have is being cheated on. I have had it happen to me a time or two and its nothing nice at all. The tacky ones will try to fight you over a man. No dick or ass in the universe is worth fighting over. I don't have time to be fighting over a piece of gristle. If his sorry ass is cheating he is not worth having around. I don't even want to see or smell his sorry ass. Why do people fuck up a good thing when its right in front of them. I think its because they are scared as hell and never had nothing as good. So they want to fuck it up because they don't know any better. The best friends, sisters and brothers are the ones you have to watch closely. Sadly its even the mother's and fathers as well we have seen them on Jerry Springer. They say don't tell your friends about what you do with your man in the bedroom. They will try to take your damn position. There is a shortage of love from a good man so be careful. I have seen it time and time again bitches going after your man. When he is holding hands with your or whatever and some bitch sees you two together. They want to steal him and work him over for their fun. I was with a good man many years ago that cheated and that was the worse thing he ever did. I could never trust his ass again. If you cheated once he will do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater that shit doesn't change. If he wants to cheat he will cheat there is nothing that will stop him. At home you could be doing everything to please that damn man. Arching that back and cooking and cleaning for his ass still isn't enough. He wants that dangerous sex that will cost him everything he cares about. But only after he gets caught and is sorry as hell for it. Or so it seems so he can get you back in the position. Where you will care and run after his ass. He will sit back and let the bitches he is fucking with disrespect you. Try to fight you and who knows whatever else. Run run away fast and don't look back at his sorry ass. Anyone who stays with someone that cheats on them deserves whatever they get. These men know that some weak minded men and women out there. Just waiting for some asshole to come along with a dick that does magic tricks. They get sprung and blinded by the dick and end up being used.

Milking The System

New laws need to be set in place to keep these women from getting over. Just because you lay on your back and take that dick isn't a reason to get paid. Welfare was created to help families in need or crisis. Not for Lawanda and Peggy to pop out babies and get paid for it. If you can work you need to get a damn job and work. The hardworking tax payers namely us are paying for the welfare. If the rest of us could get paid for taking dick we would but we can't. Unless your a stripper swinging from a pole or a street walker in the dead of fucking night. These girls black and white alike get out of school. If they can even make it out before they get hooked on dick. Start having babies as soon as they are out of school. They never hold down a job again because making those damn babies is the job. As long as they get that check on the first and fifteenth of every month that's all that matters. Along with the food stamps that the get and then try to sell for cash. If you go deep in the hood or trailer park you will find people trying to sell them. I understand that most men are dogs and only want the pussy. Once they get the pussy they are gone like the wind. Those women end up with a few kids and no job and she need some help. Some women make it out of the hood or trailer park. They get jobs and they get off of welfare. The main ones I'm taking about have been on it for years. Since they first took some dick. They live the life never holding down a job just laying in bed with a man. Sucking and riding his dick until the get pregnant again. Each child has a different baby's daddy. This is some real Maury shit right here and its sad. I said it before and I will say it again Gay men and Straight women are the same but.. Gay men can't have the asshole's baby. When we are done with his fucking ass we are done. Never to see him or smell him again. While the women end up pregnant and have a child that acts and looks just like that son of a bitch. That's why so many kids are mistreated as well. The mother is mad at the man and takes it out on the child. Because he or she looks and acts just like that asshole. People are always quick to say that so many blacks are on welfare. I hate to be the one to burst that fucking bubble of yours. But whites are also on welfare and its a lot of them as well. Women in whole need to be careful who they date and fuck. Its someone you may have to deal with the rest of your life. If you get pregnant by his sorry ass. Fucking is different for straight people because they can make a damn baby. There is power in the pussy but most women don't know it. A smart woman knows how to work not only her brain but that pussy as well. Every tom dick and harry doesn't deserve a slice of heaven. New laws need to be put into effect for all these people that are milking the system. If you need help that's one thing but if you have been on it for years. Its time to get off that ass of yours and get a fucking job like the rest of us.. People give street walkers and strippers a bad name for taking that dick. But what about the women that take dick on the daily and get paid for it. The welfare ho's that get skeeted up in all the time. Making a baby every chance they get and these kids need to be taught. That there is more to life then taking dick and getting paid for it. These young girls see mommy and they want to be like her. Please don't be like mommy go to school and keep those fucking legs closed. Women need to learn that they can take care of themselves. Times have changed and you need to get a job as well. Depending on a man is the wrong thing to do. If he leaves your ass you are fucked. Left with nothing but some tears in your eyes. Smarten up and take care of yourself so you don't end up on Welfare. All over some fucking dick of all things. I know dick can be good but not good enough. To lose yourself respect and pride..

The Truth

I never understood why people tell lies. I am not good at lying at all and I can admit that its true. I could never have a sales job because I'm not a liar. Something shady has to be part of who you are for that to work for you. Some people can lie at the drop of a dime. I have never liked liars at all since they can't be trusted. I have always been up front about how I feel and how I think. I'm not going to change that up for anyone EVER. If you don't like what's on the menu get the hell out of here. I just wish everyone would be honest then we wouldn't have all the drama. If you look ugly as fuck in that outfit I will tell you to your face you look ugly as fuck in the outfit. A true friend won't tell you what you want to hear. They will tell you what you need to hear which is the truth. They say the truth hurts and its true some people can't handle the truth. But it hurts because its hitting the nail right on the head of things. People get mad when you put them in their place but sometimes its needed. You know what I will say next" You can get glad in the same pants you got mad in". Keep it moving and enjoying living life. We all have busy lives we are living and we should keep things simple and basic. What I mean by that is with telling the truth and not trying to lie about things. Most of the stories we learn as kids are a big crock of shit. Santa Claus for one is a lie within itself. You ask any child what Christmas means and they will tell you its about getting presents. Its sad that kids have to be lied to just to make them behave. I say spank that ass and put them in a corner. Kids today are nothing like when we were growing up. Times have changed and its sad to see everything going to shit. Nothing is as good as it was before from music to toys. Stick your tooth under the pillow and the tooth fairy will come. His name is Frank and he is hairy and smokes pot. He will put a dollar under there for you. All the stories kids hear are a bunch of lies from the Tooth Fairy to Santa Claus to the Easter Bunny. It starts at an early age when the kids still believe. After they find out what lies they have been told they are just like the rest of us. Not giving a fuck about any of the bullshit that comes out of people's mouths.

Public Transportation

Its been awhile since I have caught Muni or Bart. But I will never forget how ghetto it is to ride on them. Depending on what line you have to get it can be packed. Then you will have to stand with all your bags. Get bumped and pushed by stinky people on Muni. The old Asians are the worse they are scandalous. I know that in China personal space doesn't really exist. But here it does and on Muni you have to fight with some old man or woman. They will knock you down if they feel they can get something. The signs say to give up your seat for the elderly right. Well most of the time the whole bus is packed with old ass people. I work hard and I deserve to have a seat as well. I did give my seat up a time or two. The bus is also where homeless people go to stay warm or cool. They sleep on the buses and they normally stink bad. The ghetto people and ghetto kids are bad as well. The kids are so loud that you can't hear yourself think. They yell over each other and use the N word. Most of the time they are Asian,White or Black all acting the same ignorant. I will never get why these kids think because they have black friends. Listen to hip hop music and dress the part. They act like the can use the word freely. People talking on their phones loudly on the bus is also bad. I got to the point when I would ride Muni or Bart. I would be wearing my earphones so I would not have to listen to dumb shit. Crazy people are always on the buses and you can watch them act a fool. I was on a bus once and this old black pimp was talking about what he liked. He said he wasn't gay but love to eat a woman's asshole out. Because he was a retired pimp and he loved to do this. He was talking loudly to himself but letting everyone around him know. That he was a retired pimp that loved to be freaky. Riding Bart is just the same only the seats are fabric and are stained as well. They stink they need to replace the seats with plastic seats for health reasons. They found all kinds of bacteria including shit on the seats on Bart. Homeless people love to ride Bart as well as Muni. That screeching sound that Bart makes can make your damn ears bleed. I would think that Bart and Muni would have their shit together but they don't at all. The worse for Muni are the electric trains they break down all the time. Its better to get the buses on the street. Than the underground electric trains. I use to live in the city and I lived six miles from my job. It took me two hours or more to get home every night from work. Its a pain in the ass as well as expensive for the fast pass. Bart is so greedy they don't have a monthly pass they just have a large amount card you can buy. Riding on the public transit system is an adventure for sure. You never know what you will see or smell on there. I suggest you have earphones so you don't have to hear any bullshit. I'm thankful now that I have a car and don't have to deal with Muni or Bart really.

This isn't Sesame Street

I have come across plenty of assholes in my time. But racists take the cake and I won't pretend I like them. If you have to work with someone that is racist then you are kinda stuck with them. That doesn't mean you have to put up with their bullshit. I have to deal with one every day myself. I am  civil that's all I can be without losing my job. I need my job so I choose not to take it there. Don't get it twisted I still don't take any shit. The racist has many racist friends. They come by and they smile and wave like I'm their best fucking buddy. I don't smile,  I don't wave, I don't do shit when they come around. I just give them a blank fucking stare that's all they will get from me. I'm past the point of being nice to someone that hates me because of my skin tone. Some of them want to let me know they are better than me. Which is a total crock of shit but that's the way some people are. These  queens and gays that are out and about living their lives. Most of them are racist sadly and they don't care. Don't say sorry for being racist when you mean what you say. Still its the gay community in whole for the segregation of color. Pick up any magazine or gay publication and you will see. Its divided by race White is first of course. Then here in the Bay Area Asian is very popular but still they are also hated on for race. Latin seems to be the second choice for most. Its sad that I have to read a bio or profile before I can even talk to a guy. They may be racist and it would be a waste of time. I once saw a profile saying they liked everything but Black. It went something like this" Into Asian/White/Russian/Jewish/Latin/Euro and it went on and on. It takes a lot to hate someone and for it to be a whole race. That is just stupid that people hide behind a preference. I have had someone tell me they don't like Blacks or Asians but they will go hang out with them. Why waste their time if you are not interested in them? There are so many men in this world from all over for me to block them out. My mother told me when I was a teenager that I should open the door. At that time I only dated black men only and did not even look at anything else. After my mother told me that I opened the door and realize that a man is a man. It doesn't matter what color his skin is. I avoid the escalator bitches all together I'm not a notch on someone's belt. It makes me sad that people are so racist still to this day. I have to be careful who I talk to as I said before. So many people are rude and racist. Someone I know I would not call them a friend just someone I know. Is a rice queen he loves some Asian men and its really a fetish. If you don't have the right skin tone and uncut dick you don't make the grade. Its funny to me that someone that is so shallow would end up meeting some nice men. That happen to not be Asian and get passed over because of it. I always here dumb asses saying oh I like this or that. I can tell from the taste and smell of the dick what race they are. Dick is dick in the dark its doing the same damn thing the rest do. In the end I can say that racism is alive and well again. I have said it many times before. But then again I'm a black man living in America. So I will always have a lot to say about this subject. Its sad that when I meet someone I have to first see if this person is racist. I have to see if they will actually treat me like a human being or a piece of trash.

Almost Doesn't Count

So sadly you just came out of a relationship. It wasn't a good one to begin with was it? Did you give all that you could give? It wasn't enough was it? Do you love the person that you were with? Even if they are a total asshole? Did I almost make you love me? Almost but not quite there that's why it didn't work out. As long as you give one hundred and twenty percent to the relationship. There should be no regrets you can't make a horse drink. You can only lead them to the water. I am  free of a relationship that was not good for me in the first place. Of course was some time ago. Is the relationship over when you break up or when its gone downhill? No passion left no deep connection at all. I say its over when you start to drift apart. Things are not the same and you fight over dumb shit. That's a sign of the end of things. I can see why some people are scared of being in a relationship. You can get hurt badly and it could take you years to recover from the pain. A broken heart is something that only time can heal. Being in love with someone that doesn't feel the same way you do. Its scary as hell and its dangerous if you happen to live with them. That is a true test of love when you live with someone. I think business needs to be settled first as far as the lease is concerned. That way both people are covered. I wasn't lucky in that area with my last relationship. I thought things were fine not perfect but ok. Then BAM I find out that we don't share the same feelings for each other. I find out that I'm the only one that loves the other person. Not the other way around its a hard lesson to learn but you get there. Its a true test for everyone close to you when you have a broken heart. Friends will be there if they are true friends to you. You see who is there for you when you are feeling like a piece of shit. The way that person treats when its all said and done. If you are even able to have a adult conversation with them at all. Sometimes we don't get closure at all. We have to forgive them within ourselves to let it go. After all that person was your best friend  and lover. So after the pain and hurt has gone away you should be able to be friends with them. It could take years for someone to mature or it could be never. Overall its how the person treats you from the start to the end. It should be with respect and no drama. We lose ourselves and end up having to start over again in life. Tougher skin with a chunk of your soul missing, Heart is broken and the spirit is also broken. Every day is a struggle to even smile at times but you will get your happy back. We get mad at ourselves for even thinking about that asshole we were with. But that's the love in you that is doing that. Soon it will also die and you won't be thinking of them at all. But that takes some time for that to happen. Just as long as you take back your power that person has over you. Then you will truly be free of them. Free to live and explore live and maybe just maybe. Meet someone that is real

Ice Box

So many women lay in bed with it every damn night. A cold pussy that has not been touched or eaten. Their husbands and boyfriends may dick the women down but its only until they get that nut. Most men don't take care of their women the way they should. Maybe she wants you to eat her out good. Most men don't do this either that's why women cheat. If you have a small dick that tongue better be nice long and strong. Women are complicated and need special attention so you straight men better listen up. Pulling her panties to the side and fingering her pussy isn't foreplay. Roughing up her titties for five minutes is not foreplay. Fucking her for ten minutes is not foreplay. If you can even last for ten minutes. Women will lie to you and tell you that you are doing something. When in fact you ain't doing shit they can read the paper and take a nap. While you are pumping away with that starter dick. I know a lot of women that are not happy in their relationships. They love their husbands or boyfriends but something is missing. That passion and intense shit is missing the kind that has you begging for more. You know when you can't catch your breath? Most women want their hair pulled and their cell phone thrown against the wall. Choke my ass and make me scream kinda shit. Most won't admit it but that's what they want. Most women can only have an orgasm if they use a vibrator or their finger on themselves. They can't have one while they are being fucked. I know men with little dicks are scared of sex toys. They don't to touch anything that is bigger than their dicks. Its sad that most women don't have orgasms unless they do it themselves. Now if she is lucky she will meet a man that has his PHD in pussy and knows how to treat it. Only a small number of woman are able to ejaculate and it drives the men crazy when they do. Its better to cover everything in the bedroom with sheets before you have sex. If you want that flat screen TV to work or that laptop you better cover it up. Straight men need to brush up on the pussy. I know about the pussy and I'm not into pussy at all. Did you know that women have two types of orgasms? If you do her right she will be cooking breakfast for you the next morning. Sadly most women are going without and just not happy about it. Women also need to brush up on their skills. I need to start teaching a class on how to work it. I have a friend that was in a bad marriage and she was not happy. Her husband never took care of her needs at all. He would climb on top of her and get a few pumps in before he would start to snore. Finally she left his tired ass and found a man that had a PHD in pussy. She was like a young school girl again. Pussy wet all the time and him giving it the attention that it desired. She became quite spoiled from not only his dick but his mouth and tongue. As I said I had to teach her how to suck a dick. I had to show her where to touch a man when she is going down. Well after I showed her what to do she became a damn pro. As basic bitches always seem to think that just a mouth is enough. Which is not the case we all have spots that need to be worked. We want to be stroked and caressed as well. One a pussy is awakened it will want intense passion. Simple bitches like missionary position and that's fine for a start. But you better switch things up if you want to please her. Twist her ass up like a damn pretzel and fuck the shit out her. Make her reach for shit that isn't there. Make her put her head down deep in the pillow. If you can take good care of her she will be happy.

Sexuality

The way people act today you would think people would be more understanding. There are really no fine lines when it comes to not knowing. For those of us who know who we are sexually its great. For those who don't it can be a scary thing. Straight and gay are pretty general right. Its the ones that are confused that are all over the place. First off is Bi-Curious which means he or she is somewhat attracted to the same sex. They may not have acted on it yet its just a feeling they have. They may never act on it and it will just be something they think about from time to time. We have a club here in San Francisco its called the End-Up. Its a fun club to go to and dance the night away. Its also a melting pot of everyone. Gay,Straight,Transexual,Bisexual and the Bi Curious as well. On many different levels I have seen them. When I first moved to San Francisco I started to go to the End Up. I was there one night and saw a cute guy and asked him to dance. He was freaked out and kinda ran away from me.. I didn't give it a second thought until a friend pointed out to me many months later. When I was there sitting down, dancing or hanging out on the patio. That same guy was always standing next to me. He was with his straight friends but was clearly feeling me. My female friend thought he was creepy because he didn't say much. She didn't understand that he was with his friends and could not do that. I'm sure if he was alone it would have been another story all together. Nothing ever happened with that guy but he was nice to look at. There are plenty of men that are Bi-Curious that go to the End Up. Also there are the girls that take their straight boyfriends there. They are the ones that look like a deer caught in headlights. They are scared of gay people and it shows on their faces. If you even say anything to them they are running away scared. Then you have the Bi couples that are down to have a good time. I don't know how many times I have met a couple and the guy will introduce me to his girlfriend. While he is rubbing on my leg and smiling. Its almost like a learning class at the End Up or it use to be. I haven't been in a long time. I have to go and see the sexy DJ Hawthorne spin soon. You will get a good look at the Tranny's they dance all together in one spot. They all look like Jessica Rabbit. Those bodies are filled with so much crap I doubt they sink in open water. The lips and everything else is plumped up within an inch of their lives. When you see them you can't help but stare at them. Long hair to hide the face and look more like a woman. Huge tits with a tiny small waist. Huge birthing hips and ass with some stripper hooch style. The Tranny sniffers are always close by them. A Tranny Sniffer is a man that considers himself to be straight. Like most men that like Transexuals they love for them to look like a woman. Most of the time I would say that the Trannys are the ones fucking the men in the ass. But it goes both ways with those Trannys. They usually have huge horse dicks and that's what the sniffers are after. At the time when I was going there I met a guy there very good looking. He told me his story about how he loves Trannys but he considers himself to be straight. He said he was straight because he didn't get fucked in the ass. I asked him if he touched the dick at all. He said that he loved to play with the dick and suck it. I told him that he wasn't straight then if he liked dick. It doesn't have to be deep in your guts for you to be gay or bi. I have come to notice that those Trannys can pull in some sexy ass men. I'm talking about very good looking men. That you would never even think would be a Tranny sniffer. People like what they like straight or gay its all the same. I'm shocked at how many straight men love anal sex. Not just on the women they want to fuck but on themselves. How can you love to fuck a woman in her ass and be hateful to gay men? Or stick a dildo up your own ass and be hateful. Bottom line is you like either dick or pussy or even both. Whatever the case may be people will always like what they like. Even if its a hidden secret that needs to be done in a dark corner somewhere.

Cell Phones and how to use them properly

Times have changed and everyone seems to have a cell phone now. But most people don't know when to shut the fuck up. Conversations are meant to be private but with ghetto people roaming the damn streets. We are subjected to listen to them yelling on the damn phone about nothing. They are doing too damn much on that cell phone. Usually its when you are stuck in line at the grocery store. Unable to run away you are stuck to listen to them smack those gums together. I'm glad to see signs that ban the use of cell phones. We need to get more of them all over the city. People are taking it to the next level on these phones. It could be May Ling talking to her girlfriend very loud. Or it could be Aquanetta talking to her homegirl about last night's dick. Whatever the case they make sure to talk so loud that you can't help but to hear it. I'm sure you have heard by now of that dumb ass girl that got kicked out of the movie theater. Her ass was on that phone in the middle of a movie texting. She had the nerve to call the theater and leave a nasty message. Talk about trailer trash her dumb ass is now the warning. Played before every movie to warn the stupid ass people that are not that bright. But still every time I go to the movies somebody is on their phone texting. Or their phone starts to ring during the movie. As I told you before I always keep it 100% real and I will say something. If I'm being disturbed during the movie I paid good money for. You better believe that I will be saying something. I don't give a fuck! I have told people before to turn their damn phones off. I'm glad I'm not the only one to do it. Some people are so dumb they will always do dumb shit. Talking on the phone and kicking the back of my seat. Will get you cussed out real quick. The law for texting or talking on the phone is in full effect. But does that stop these dumb asses? No it doesn't I see people daily that are holding that phone and driving. Get a damn bluetooth and keep it moving. I don't think anyone should be in a heated conversation while driving. You need to be paying attention to the road. Not what the fuck Becky is telling you on the phone. You hear about people being killed all the time. Texting or doing dumb shit while they are driving. Someone that will remain nameless does this kind of dumb shit. You know who you are I am  calling you out. Clipping their nails while they are driving. I had to cuss them out telling them my life is important. You can do that dumb shit when I'm not in your car. I digress back to the subject at hand the cell phones. The other thing that people and they need to stop. Texting or getting calls while your on a date. I want eye contact and full attention not you on that phone all the time. Life is busy I get that and we all get calls and texts. Put that phone on silent or vibrate or better yet turn it off for awhile. The world won't end if you can't text or talk to your friends for a few hours. Cell phones have come a long way getting better and better. People need to catch up to the damn phones. They should teach classes on manners and proper use of a cell phone. When you buy a phone it should come with some warnings. If your mouth is too damn wide(Another one of my sayings Wide=When your mouth is so big from talking all the damn time.) Someone may not want to hear all the details of your damn life. That new four hundred dollar phone you love. It may be thrown out a window or down the street somewhere. People think they can do whatever they want to do. Just because you have the new iPhone 65 doesn't mean your mouth has to be wide. In the middle of Starbucks talking about what you had for dinner last night. Here is a hint no one gives a fuck what you are talking about. Unless its urgent like you are meeting friends somewhere or you are lost. Keep the conversations private move to a corner or away from people. That is the correct thing to do when out in public. Better yet you can always text that is not so rude. Unless its in a dark theater. The next time you are going to see a movie. Turn the damn phone off or put it on vibrate. If you do have it on vibrate don't look at the damn phone every five minutes.

The Down Low

This exists because of the way the black community feels about gays. The homophobia is so strong that it has caused all kinds of problems. In the black community and others as well. But I'm talking about the black community today. As I have said before in the black community a man is suppose to be a man. Which translates to fucking different women and having a bunch of kids. Having a bunch of baby's mama's fighting over that dick. Which isn't worth the spit it takes to clean it. Sagging pants and out in the street doing illegal shit. Talking that smooth player talk and nothing much else. Am I hitting the nail on the head? Hell yes I am. The women end up being the ones that have to raise their kids alone. Like I said before it all starts in the Church. That is where the hate starts and it will always be there. Of course everyone in the black community has someone gay in their family. A gay uncle or cousin or a gay son or daughter. Still they act surprised when they find out someone is gay. I remember some kids asking me once why I talked like a girl. Or as most blacks like to call it talking properly AKA white...I talk the way I talk and won't change that for anyone. For those of you who think I would do this. You can kiss the pink part of my ass ( Don't be stealing my sayings)  Its a thing in the ghetto that if you're trying to better yourself and educate yourself. That you are acting white which is stupid to me. Only the smart ones will make it out of the hood and prosper. The rest will sit in slums and collect welfare and make more babies. The men will go to prison and their lives will change. As I said it starts in the Church for those of us that have been to Church. The organ player and members of the choir are gay. So the mindset among blacks are that being gay isn't something you talk about. And because of that the Down low was born. These men go to prison like I said and they are there for years. They can all deny it until the day they die. They are locked up with no women around at all for them. Men become their lives and they end up being turned out by the other inmates. Unless you are some big boss in your cell block. You are sucking dick and getting your dick sucked as well. They act like it doesn't go on in prison but it does. The men also get fucked in the ass and do the fucking as well. These men go in straight and they are turned out. I always hear the ignorant people saying that gays recruit. That is not true either you are gay or straight. But the sidebar to that is that the men in prison are the ones that get turned out. They become gay or bisexual because they got a taste of that dick. They are now confused because they love their wives and girlfriends. But the wives and girlfriends could not give them what they are getting in prison. A hard dick to suck and ride on becomes a thing of the norm. These men get out of prison and they now like both sides of the fence. Part of the down low men that are out there. They go home and go crazy for pussy since its been so long since they had any. They live breath and eat pussy when they get out. But then their bodies start to remember what its like to be with a man. To have a hard dick to suck on. To have a man deep inside of them. That itch grows and they have to have it itched. The other side of the down low are the men that have not been locked up. Just the regular black men that are curious or may be gay. Bisexual or just plain horny for some sex. When I lived in LA I knew a fine brotha that was on the Down low. He was married with kids but loved to have sex with men. I'm sure I'm not the only black gay man that will say this. I always get hit on by Down low men. They only want one thing and one thing only. Sex and the women are the ones that pay the price. Along with these Down low men. They get infected with HIV and don't know it most of the time. Until its too late or they get really sick. As I said before the black community is homophobic and this is a by product of that homophobia. They need to start giving out condoms in prisons and schools. Parents act like they know everything that their kids are doing. If you have daughters they should be put on the pill. As soon as they get their periods. Talking to them openly about things and teaching them something. About the real world and what to watch out for is the best. I know they don't want the inmates having sex in prison but it does happen. Someone is skeeting off into someone ass or mouth on the daily. In prison and it will always happen. We all get horny and men especially need to bust a good nut. I know that a lot of y'all don't want to hear this but its true. Thugs especially love to play around with other men. From crips to bloods to cholo's they all love to fuck around. Most of them have been locked up and they are not afraid of the dick. They will lick,suck and ride on it and not even blink. Women there is no sure fire way to know if your man is one of these men. Hopefully you are with a man that has never been locked up. If he has been locked up for years at a time. He is not afraid of the dick do you hear me? There are straight men out there that can be trusted not to be on the down low. One sure way to know is if your man is very homophobic. The biggest bottom will be the one yelling out faggot faggot. When in his mind he is thinking about how many ways that dick will fit into his mouth and ass. So ladies be aware if your man is hating too much on gays. I remember years ago me and boyfriend at the time took a female friend to a club. A gay black club she is as pretty black woman. She was so mad and ill when she saw all the fine ass men up in that club. She had to leave the club she was so confused. Why does he have to be gay? I said because he is gay that's why. She is now the black Columbo and she lives in the second biggest black gay area. In the US the DC area which is only second to Atlanta. If you know anything you know not to fuck with a gay boy. There is nothing worse than being beaten up by a gay boy. In front of your friends that will show how manly you really are. I'm sure its crazy in Atlanta with men walking around with that strange style of heels and makeup. I know those thugs don't fuck with them. But then again I'm sure those Down low men know where to go. If they want that dick sucked or want some dick themselves. Sadly the Down low thing is bad because its done in secret and normally without protection. Its one of the reasons HIV raging in the black community. The other is just that people are stupid straight and gay or whatever the case may be. Running up in someone's guts without a condom is stupid as hell. Don't act surprised when your test results come back positive. It really doesn't matter if you are gay or straight. HIV doesn't care what you are. The black media also doesn't help at all. Blacks are so concerned about who is gay and who isn't. Does it really matter that much? Unless you are fucking the person that you are talking about. You should go sit down somewhere and shut the fuck up. I have to say I do like MediaTakeOut.com but.. They are very homophobic about some of their stories. Its the way the black community has shaped itself and its sad to see it. Anyone with some sense in their heads will know not to be fucking with a black queen. They will beat that ass man or woman and not even blink. There will always been some men creeping around hunting for dick..

Hambeasts and things that get on my nerves.

Ok so I see these Hambeasts all the damn time. You wondering what the hell a Hambeast is? Its a big man or woman that is wearing shit they should not be wearing. Namely their daughter's shirts and shorts. If you have a Disney body you should not be wearing tight shit. I need to do a dictionary post so you will understand. If you read my blog regularly you will catch on to my sayings. But I will explain what a Disney body is. You know when you go to Disneyland and you see the people in the costumes. The body is big and round all the way around. They only thing that is missing is the mask that goes over the head. Well I call that a Disney body and that area around their bodies is called a FOPA.. which you say like this foe-pa. It means Fat Over Pussy or Penis Area which ever is present at the time of sighting. So now you know what I mean when I say a Disney body. Some big men and women know how to work it but some. Lets just say they need some help badly. Big women that have big titties think they can be like the skinny bitches. Wearing pussy shorts and bra's out in public. Making my damn eyes bleed and burn. With that child birth stomach on display with all the stretch marks showing. The men don't get off easy either. Wearing shirts too damn small for their big ass bodies. A classy big man or woman will wear clothes that fit. Don't think I'm hating on the big Men and Women. I'm not I'm talking mad shit about that ones that don't handle their shit right. Now on to some other things that get on my nerves. If you are going to wear flip flops or sandals. Please go have May Ling scrub the crust off of your feet. Or do it your damn self. Clip those toe nails and keep it moving. Laquisha and them love to have those long nails added to their toes. Looking like a damn bird of prey. This gets on my nerves along with those claws for nails. How the hell do they wipe their own asses with those talons? That is some hood rat shit if I ever did see. Moving along If your feet are so cold that you need socks. Put some damn shoes on and don't wear flip flops with socks. Also people men and women that wear house shoes or sandals with sock. Then drag their feet when they walk.. Are you cracked out? Put on some damn shoes and walk right. This is some bullshit ghetto shit in all races. The other thing is the ghetto snort its nasty when I hear it. You know when you have a cold and someone will snort the snot up. They make that nasty pig sound. Its universal and I can't stand it. I have seen people from all walks of life do it. I thought they stopped making the Predator movies a long time ago? I see we have plenty of them walking around. These men with the dreadlocks looking like a damn Predator from the movie. I can't help but to think some floor somewhere needs to be mopped. When I see those nasty dreds long and funky looking. Then they have the nerve to put a hat over them. I have said this before and I will say it over and over again. Pull those damn pants up off of that ass. No one I mean no one wants to see those skeeted up underwear you go on. Lets not forget the people that have to spit all the damn time. Spitting every other minute this is some crackhead shit. The last thing I say that really gets on my nerves. People that can't speak proper English. Its ok to be all down in the hood but. The real world is out there and you need to hold down a job. Not scaring the white people with that crazy talk. If you can't talk proper English take that ass back to school. Also that Valley talk is crackhead shit as well. If every other word out your mouth is "Like" get a new fucking word. Learn how to complete a sentence. I don't normally do request but a good friend of mine asked me to write about the Hambeasts. So there you have it.