The lovely game of Tag

So I notice that most men and women want you to chase them. I don't have time to be chasing after anyone at all. If there is a vibe both people should be putting in the work if you want to get to know that other person. I won't be saying any names but if I don't say hello the people then they never speak at all. They can go fly a fucking kite as far as I am concerned. If I say hello to you and we start to have a conversation. Don't think that I am going to say hello to you every single time. There are rules to follow when dealing with new people dating or not. It also applies to friends or new friendships as well. It takes two people to have a relationship. It also take  some dedication to make the time to call,text or visit a friend. People will make that excuse they are too busy to call or text. It only takes a few minutes to make a call. A text only takes a few seconds so there is no real excuse not to contact someone. Its true life is there and we all have to live ours but in the same breath. Make an effort to talk to those friends in your life. As far as the dating world goes they only get a call or two at the most. If they don't call you after that erase that number and keep it moving. Chasing someone is not a good look even if you like them. The feelings need to be mutual and they need to be open to it as well. Sometimes the timing is off with someone they may be with someone else or just busy. Still if its meant to be it will happen no need to stress over any piece of gristle. I use to be that one always saying hello but those days are over. So you bitches that never say hello you can keep that hello. If both people are making the effort the friendship or courting can start and it can be fun. If they are not scared of the sweat then keep it going. If they are not giving you the time of day. Then its time to clean some house. You hear me knocking? Then let me the fuck in....