Anal? Really?

After this week's episode of Kandi Koated Nights. The topic was have you ever dated a down low brotha? or sista for that matter.. But this topic is not about that but about what we were discussing in the chat room. A lot of the women were saying no to anal sex and asking if there was a way to tell if a man is on the downlow. The answer is no there is no way to tell he could very masculine. I don't understand why straight people are so boring and act like they don't know about kink. From what I have seen straight people love anal as much as gays do. So don't front on the funk baby. The one thing that needs to be taught to straight people is to fucking douche. Don't even go near that asshole if it hasn't been flushed out and cleaned. You hear me knocking? Good go buy a hose for the shower or you can do it the hard way. Buy some Fleet Enemas and keep it moving. Every woman I know has their men begging for anal sex. But yet they can sit up and turn their noses up at gays. You better buy a damn clue and wake up to reality. Men are men straight or gay that love anal and not just on their partners but on themselves as well. Sexuality is like a rainbow so many things exist in it. I know some straight men that are 100% straight but they love anal play. They will have a dildo and use it on themselves. Those are the smart men that know about douching. Just because you like something up your ass doesn't mean you want it to be with a man. Its strange but its true that these men are straight and like it. They are not attracted to men at all but they have a deep itch in the bowels of that ass. That only a dildo will reach and satisfy to the fullest. A lot of straight men like gay men like their salad's tossed. If you don't know what that means I will break it down to you. It means they like their asses eaten out a.k.a. lick on that hole. Some women are open like some men are and they try new things. Its the prudes that want the light off and missionary style. They are scared to even climb on top and ride it. That is the boring sex that only a select few like. Don't be mad when your man leaves that ass for a more freaky partner. I'm not saying you have to be all kinky but you should have a little kink in the bedroom. Spice things up and keep it moving. More women are giving into their man's fetish to fuck them in their ass. I have a friend who's boyfriend just slipped in into her ass. He really hurt her and didn't even care really. The ass is different from the pussy you can't just stick it in. You have to take it nice and slow and get that muscle to relax. Then you can go all Rambo on it once its nice and relaxed..Classes need to be taught to straight people if you are going to do it do it right. Start with the douching...

The lovely game of Tag

So I notice that most men and women want you to chase them. I don't have time to be chasing after anyone at all. If there is a vibe both people should be putting in the work if you want to get to know that other person. I won't be saying any names but if I don't say hello the people then they never speak at all. They can go fly a fucking kite as far as I am concerned. If I say hello to you and we start to have a conversation. Don't think that I am going to say hello to you every single time. There are rules to follow when dealing with new people dating or not. It also applies to friends or new friendships as well. It takes two people to have a relationship. It also take  some dedication to make the time to call,text or visit a friend. People will make that excuse they are too busy to call or text. It only takes a few minutes to make a call. A text only takes a few seconds so there is no real excuse not to contact someone. Its true life is there and we all have to live ours but in the same breath. Make an effort to talk to those friends in your life. As far as the dating world goes they only get a call or two at the most. If they don't call you after that erase that number and keep it moving. Chasing someone is not a good look even if you like them. The feelings need to be mutual and they need to be open to it as well. Sometimes the timing is off with someone they may be with someone else or just busy. Still if its meant to be it will happen no need to stress over any piece of gristle. I use to be that one always saying hello but those days are over. So you bitches that never say hello you can keep that hello. If both people are making the effort the friendship or courting can start and it can be fun. If they are not scared of the sweat then keep it going. If they are not giving you the time of day. Then its time to clean some house. You hear me knocking? Then let me the fuck in....

Greed

We see it all the time someone will start a small business and then it will blow up. For instance I am talking about Netflix it was great for those few years when it was gaining speed. Don't try to fix something that ain't broke leave it be. They are the reasons for video stores went out of business. Blockbuster is copying Netflix and now they have almost the same service. But do you remember that they don't give gay couples health benefits? It was a big thing back in the day that they were so scandalous. I would never shop or subscribe to Blockbuster they can kick rocks with open toed shoes. I would understand if Netflix was offering something new and being the leaders in that field. They should try to come up with something that is all them. They want to charge people more for the same shit that they had years ago. You don't pay more for the same brand you pay more if it improves. They lost half of their customers to the greed and now they are suffering. I can tell you those people won't be returning they will be hurting now. Some new company will rise and take Netflix's place and hopefully they will be smart about the choices they make. In the end Netflix is looking like a damn fool for being so damn greedy. They are running around trying to fix something they can't fix. I left them over a year ago and won't be back. If they can offer something new and exciting then maybe I will take another look. Still the prices are high and you have to choose if you want dvd's shipped to your house. If you're a tech person you will want to watch Blu Ray movies and that plan is also expensive. Netflix wants to do away with all dvd's and Blu Ray discs and just be all streaming. The old fashioned people were bitching but the cloud is the way we are heading. Soon everything we want will just be a mouse click away..

Marriage The anwser to happiness for Hetro's

They want to keep us from achieving the same things as them. That being marriage but if you look in black magazines like Jet for instance. The black community along with the rest of the world and America for that matter. Focus on marriage its what little girls are taught from an early age. Looking through the Jet magazine there is a section for people that have been married and people getting married. Hetro's think that marriage will solve all their problems and that is not the case. With over half of marriages ending in divorce they need to rethink jumping the broom. Yet they say its all about them and we can't share in the glory of marriage. The women are blind they think that after that ring is on the finger. That the cheating will stop and they will live happily ever after. Which is some bullshit and that's when the wife will call 1-800-GO JERRY. Its obvious they don't know a damn thing about gays. Its hard for us to even find a damn boyfriend let alone someone we will want to spend our lives with. I'm not saying it can't happen I'm just saying most gay men are weak and don't want to stick around when it comes to that. The NSA thing is so popular now and its sad that its come to that. Anyway I digress, marriage should be for anyone who wants it. They seem to forget it was created for tax purposes only. But of course religion had to go stick its fucking nose where it doesn't belong. Just because you get married in a church doesn't mean the church is running shit. Marriage should be for anyone that is two adults that want to do it. Its hard enough just finding love or anyone to have a decent conversation with. In the words of B.Scott" Don't let loneliness drive you into the arms of someone who doesn't deserve you in the first place. I second that fucking emotion and its the truth no one should ever settle because they are alone. In a world of players, whores, leeches, and no good down right walking sperm machines. Its hard to find a good man you hear me knocking? There is a shortage of a good man out there. So when you find someone that you want to spend your life with. Sitting on the porch holding hands then do it I say do it. Get married and if those bitches don't like it. Tell them to kiss the deepest part of that ass...

Strictly Business

Dealing with people at work that you can't stand the sight of. We have to keep it strictly business and not get personal with them. We are forced to deal with them on the daily because we work with them. People from all walks of life and from all over the globe. This is where most people learn about people that are different from them. You have heard me talk about the crazy racist bitch that I have to deal with on the daily. She is cheap, rude,racist and crazy as a loon. Its not like I could speak my mind to her and tell her how I really feel. When she first moved into the building where I work. I was nice to her and tried to have conversations with her. Well I got to know exactly what kind of person I was dealing with not too long afterwards. She complained that I was being too personal with her. Because she was going out one night and I told her that she looked nice. Now that bitch can be covered in flame and I would not lift a finger to help put her out. Her friends are as rude and racist as she is and I am tested when they come by to see her or pick her up. I have said this before and I will say it again. I never have and never will kiss anyone's ass at all. I don't care what position you hold or who you are in this world. She expects along with her friends for me to bow down and be like a slave in slavery times. That won't be happening ever and she is not happy about that at all. As the year is getting closer to the end it will be time for Christmas bonuses. All the other tenants take good care of us but the one crazy bitch is another story. Now remember how I told you we are not allowed to be personal with her right. Well she always gets us these cheap personal gifts at Christmas time. My manager has said he will say something to her but I don't know if it will work. I will be saying something to her but of course not at 100%. I don't want to lose my job so I will break it down on a Disney level that she will understand. When I say cheap I will explain what we normally get for Christmas from this cheap bitch. First off she will get us some sparkling grape juice. What is that two ninety nine? Some crackers, a book that we would not even pick up at a bookstore. She will pick a book that she would like to read. That would be the book she gets for us. Last but not least which is something that we would use but she is so cheap what can you get with this? Its a twenty five dollar gift card for Whole Foods. Have you been to Whole Foods? Its a nice store but its expensive as hell so that twenty five dollars won't really cover shit. I know some of you are saying we should be grateful right. Well what she gives us compared to the other tenants is mere cents. My manager has told her that the other tenants give us cash or check for our bonuses. So we will wait to see what will happen at that time. What I want to tell her is she will be in a fucking home soon enough so it won't matter.

Eyes Wide Shut

I can understand that some of these women ain't never squirted. Busted a hard hard nut until that dog came along and hit the bottom of that pussy. Now their nostrils are wide open and they are giving their all to this dog. He knows he has her as soon as he found the bottom of that pussy. Now she will do whatever it takes to keep him fed, fucked and happy while she is arching that back. Women are emotional creatures and if a man is hitting it just right they catch feelings for his sorry ass. Even if they know he is a dog they still fall  because he is laying that dick right on time. They will sale those food stamps to get some money to give to him. Open those eyes ladies or you will be looking like a damn fool up on Maury. With that " You are not the father" bullshit. Is it worth you losing yourself over some dick? even if its good dick that hits the bottom of that pussy. Its so sad to watch Maury and see all these low rent bitches getting played. Black and white its all the same damn thing. She let him in and he destroyed it and put it back together again. Now she is hooked on that dick and hooked on busting that nut that he provides her. She can try to do it herself but its not the same thing is it? Some of these bitches are too proud to use a toy. So they will suffer until he can get back and take care of business for them. They would give all those kids away if he would stay and take care of that pussy for them. Bending over backwards to keep the house clean and him well fed. So he can perform magic tricks on that pussy and ass. Don't play yourself over some dick or pussy please. It makes you look weak and needy so move on to the next. Make sure they are not playing you a warm bed to sleep in. I know you get that check on the first and fifteenth of every month. Just don't be tricking it off on him because he is hitting that shit. Feed those babies and pay the bills...

Don't Throw Those Rocks in Glass Houses

I see people are so damn judgemental about other people. They will try to hold you down man and they are not saints. I don't get how you could be all up in someone's business. But your own shit is not right or tight. Get that money right get things in order in your own damn life. Worry about those kids you birthed and pay your damn bills. Stop worrying about what I am doing and who I am fucking. Those who have the widest mouths are the ones with a shit load of skeletons in their closets. People will hate on you because of the way you look. Or they simply just like to hate on people because their lives aren't what they should be. Don't be mad at me cause shit ain't going right in your life. With the way the media is today people want to see when people are down and out. It seems they get a thrill out of when someone is hurting and make fun of them. If only there was a reverse some shit button to push. If you can't stand the heat get out of the fucking kitchen. Those who dish out the drama and get off on other people's misfortune. They are the bitches that would not last five minutes under the spotlight. Have you ever had a collections agent call you and try to go off on you? You have to be a shady type of person to work for a collection agency. We all go through good and bad times and sometimes it can't be helped. Most people in those types of jobs can't handle if you throw it back into their faces. They will run like a true bitch would fast and in a fucking hurry. No one should be judging anyone on anything that does not have a thing to do with them. That goes from fucking and sucking to swinging on a pole. We all have to make a living and if you are a lady or man of the night. Then that is what you are but its not for someone to talk shit about. Got a roof over your head? Food on the table? Bills paid and in order? Then you are doing alright in my book. Until you live a lifetime in someone's shoes have a big cup of shut the fuck up. Worry about what you will do with your life and stop worrying about sally mae and them. Anyone who says they are perfect has mental issues because no one or thing is perfect. We can strive to be the best we can be but its a work in progress. Those of us that are open to it will continue to grow. those bitches that are not open are stuck on fucking stupid. Feed those kids you birthed and wash your ass and worry about what's going on in your life. Not who skeeted up in Sha-nay-nay because she ain't thinking about your ass at all. Yes you may read the bible backwards and forward but that don't make you any better than anyone else. As I said before you can't buy your way into heaven. So remember that when you are looking down your fucking noses at people. That don't think like you think and don't believe in what you believe in.

The Misadventures of the Magic Pussy

Its funny to me that straight women think that all the answers are in their pussy. I don't know how many straight women are attracted to me and say. Are you sure? I could change your mind! Yeah right that won't work on me. I can understand it working for a straight man but not a gay man. I get for a straight man that pussy can rule the world. If the pussy is smart and doesn't get played out. But in other news a.k.a the real world that doesn't happen with gay men. Its strange to me that straight women boil it down to they can solve being gay with their pussy. Just so you know pussy is a non factor for gays. The only pussy we know is the one we came out of. Other than that we don't want to smell it, touch it, lick it or fuck it, or even see it for that matter. I love women I do they are great but just not sexually for me. You can't turn someone straight or gay it isn't possible. Contrary to what the ignorant believe you are born either gay or straight. That's why its funny to me that straight people always say. That gays are recruiting straights to become gay. You can't make someone into something they are not. Respect them for who and what they are and go find some other piece of gristle. That's like me chasing after some straight man it's not going to happen. I have no desire to be with or talk to a straight man in that way. Its a waste of time and energy for me so why do it. I always get from straight women " You don't look gay" Thanks ladies but I am gay and I'm flattered by the things you say. But that won't make me want to get into your pants or inside of you. I have seen straight women get mad when they are taken to a gay club. They see all these men they are attracted to and get no love. Well you are in a gay club so dance and have drinks with your gay friends. Remember you are not there to find a man you are there to have a good time. Tomorrow you can go to a straight bar and hunt for some dick. When I go to a straight bar I know its so different from a gay bar. I just enjoy the eye candy if there is any at all. I see things for what they are and I am not trying to change anything. Again gay people have been here from the start of man and we will be here until the end. It should not be a shock or anyone's business who is gay or not. Ask yourself this question could anyone who is attracted to you. Walk up to you and say hey are you sure? What would you tell them? That pussy is only magical to straight men and bull dagga's other than that it can wilt away and dry up in the gay world.

Stop Playing Yourself

Stop looking like a fucking idiot already, what is really going on? Is it worth you losing yourself for some dick or pussy? If you don't respect yourself no one else will either. I was watching Maury this morning and it was a show of fools. These women lose their minds over a piece of dick. That is being given out to anyone who wants it. I understand he made you skeet all over the place but damn. Is it worth you losing self respect and looking like a damn fool? Don't worry Shaniqusha you can find another thug that will put it down. Its sad for the women to act like that's the last piece of dick on the planet. If he is not the father keep it moving. All he wanted was a hit and run and I am sure it wasn't hard for him. To get you to drop those panties on the floor for him. Then getting mad at another victim for also falling on his dick. Don't get mad at her get mad at his tired ass. But first go to the clinic and get tested. You are laying on that back so the rent and bills get paid. Is that pussy worth a hundred dollar electric bill? Good pussy is priceless and no amount can be put on it. A woman with good pussy will give it to her man not for him to pay the bills. But because she loves him and wants to see him bust a nut. After he makes her bust hers for sure. Don't think I'm letting the men off so easy either. There are some weak ass men out there playing themselves for a place to stay. They will give that dick out for a warm place to sleep. This type of weak man depends on weak minded dick hungry women to prey on. There are plenty of them out there just begging for some dick. Someone to touch that tit and rub on that clit. As long as the pussy is getting attention they are happy. You see those big gals walking around half naked with the tits hanging all out. Those are the ones that got a hold of some dick. Some man fucked the shit out of them. Now they are showing out with no self respect at all for themselves. We all get played at some point but that can't be helped. I'm talking about the ones that know they are being played. All for that piece of gristle they will play the fool. These men and women being reduced to cum freaks. All they care about is who will make them skeet. They want to skeet all the damn time and don't care who makes them do it. Some of these people live to be played and they enjoy it. We all know someone that was or is dating a dog or street walker. They stay because the sex is good and that's all they care about. They got caught up with having feelings for the person playing them. The person playing them knows this and gets all kinds of shit from them. Breakfast cooked in the morning, Bills payed in full, Cars purchased for them all over some dick or pussy. People that get turned out are seeing stars in their eyes. They got skeeted up in their throats or ass. Now they are wide open and begging for more no caring what price they pay at all. Like I said we all have been played on some level but we didn't know until it was too late. But to be openly being played and not caring.. You are a damn fool over a piece of gristle.

Ignorance

I was watching a show I don't normally watch the Bad Girls Club. The Persian bitch on the show doesn't understand homosexuality. She doesn't believe in it and she is out and out homophobic. One of the other girls in the house is a lesbian and the Persian bitch likes calling everyone a faggot. The lesbian girl stepped to her and told her that she was being disrespectful and she should not use that word. Well that Persian bitch doesn't care and she continues to use the word. I'm not normally for violence but sometimes people need their asses kicked to learn to show some respect. Just because you don't believe in something doesn't mean it does not exist. This goes back to her being a product of her parents. Them not teaching her that all kinds of people are in the world. Listen up people if you are for or against gays it doesn't really matter. We are here and we are not going anywhere. So fucking get over it already and show some respect. I always here people saying I want to be accepted. I could care less about being accepted really. You better damn well respect me or there will be a problem. That lesbian should have shoved her fist so far down that Persian's bitches face. That she would never use that word again not around the lesbian. The same goes with the N word being used by all these young kids. I have dealt with this ignorance before when I use to work at a Steel Mill. With a bunch of ignorant straight men and it was a hard job to do. This one guy was saying the N word and I went off on his ass. I told him don't ever use that word in front of me. You won't disrespect me or you will be getting up off the ground. He said well so and so lets me say it. I said do I fucking look like so and so? get a fucking clue already. People will only do what you allow them to do. As I said before I am allergic to bullshit. I keep it one hundred percent real if you know me you know how I roll. I have never acted fake or kissed anyone's ass. Its not in my DNA to do that and I could not even if I tried. If its a work situation then judge me by the work I do. Because I won't be kissing anyone's ass to get ahead. If that sounds like the job you are working now get the hell out of there. Office jobs are the worse because those people are so boring and their lives are boring. They have to be getting all up into your business. Backstabbing and kissing ass is the laws of the land in that shitty job that you can do without. Ignorance is everywhere all you have to do is look around you. Its sitting right next to you in the next cubical. Or it could be that asshole boss of yours that full of drama. I know times are hard and its hard to find a good job. sometimes we get stuck but we don't have to play the game of politics. Once those fuckers know that you don't play they won't fuck with you. But if they do set an example with that ass so the rest of those bitches know who they are fucking with..

Never Given A Choice

Never given a choice in the matter as babies we are butchered. We are cut because of religious views and them saying its not clean. Its the way we were made its natural so why the cutting? Of course women don't have dicks and they just make a choice to cut part of the dick off. Some will say I want you to look just like your father. Its not like I will be walking around one day looking at my dad's dick. Saying yeah my dick does look like yours yeah right. More and more these days people are not doing it and leaving it up to the boy to choose. When he is a man he can make that choice. I understand if its for medical reasons like Phimosis then its needed. If a father is uncut and his son is as well he needs to teach the boy. How to clean it and keep it clean because you can get infections. America seems to have taken to the cutting of the dick in the fifties and its still on going. But a change has started and more and more boys are being left intact. The Muslim people believe the uncut dick to be unclean as they say. But its natural so I don't get how it can be said to be unclean. As long as you wash it and keep it clean it should be fine. Again religion plays a big part in the reasons for the cutting of the dick. Some of us are fascinated by the uncut dick and want to know more about it. I use to be scared of uncut dick because some of them are not clean. With one whiff you can be knocked unconscious and be laid out of the ground. I dated a guy that was uncut and he had like four inches of foreskin and he had Phimosis. It looked like a old sock slumped over and he had to use a q-tip to clean it. The skin was so tight he could not pull it back at all. I told him to go to a doctor he needed to be circumcised. Someone that I know was dating a guy that also had Phimosis and he went to the doctor. They removed the foreskin and he had two lumps under the head. They were non cancerous so he was lucky. Talking to women they don't even notice if their men are cut or uncut. They don't really pay attention to those things. Unless it looks like one of the sand worms from the film Dune. Then they can say yes my man is uncut for sure. The world is uncut except for America and the Muslim people around the world. So usually outside of America we will get a sexy accent along with the foreskin. Some people don't like uncut and some do its the way we were born. Its natural and its the way things were before all of the cutting and snipping began. Back before toothbrushes and deodorant, tampons and soap people had to really like you and your smells. The funk of your breath and your body all together. I'm glad I wasn't born in those times I could not imagine not being clean. So mother's out there if you have a son give him the choice. Don't make it for him let him choose if he keeps everything intact.

Wake Up Parents

Parents seem to have this idea in their heads that kids are dumb. The parents are the ones who are dumb. Teach your kids about the ways of the world or they will have problems later on. Thinking that they don't know about sex is stupid because they know all about sex. They learn from the other kids at school and they experiment. So by the time you are ready to have that talk with them. They will already be well into having it and maybe even pregnant. I understand protecting kids from bad things in the world. But teach them that the world is full of different people. The brainwashing continues with parents wanting their kids to wait to have sex. Until marriage but that is not reality at all. Kids go though puberty and they have sexual feelings as well. I was talking to a friend of mine who has a kid and we were talking about this issue. I told her that her son who is now ten gets erections. She was so shocked when I told her that she thought he would not get them until he was a man. I told her that he has been getting erections from the time he was born. A male will get erections all the time from a baby until he is dead and gone. I thought it was crazy that she didn't know that at all. Of course I'm talking about body functions not being sexual. Still she didn't know anything about it. I know its hard to keep a family together so its normally a single parent. That is raising kids and it makes it harder on the parent. Still if its a two parent household or a single parent household. A family is a family and all go though the same things with raising kids. The way of the brainwashed is to stay a virgin until they get married. Then have a horrible night when they get married. Because they don't know anything about sex. That is not the way the world works but its an idea of those who believe it. The more you shelter your kids the harder it will be on them and you. Teaching them right from wrong is a start but you have to also teach them about the world. Parents want their dreams to continue in their kids. But they need to know that their kids will have their own dreams to follow. Let them be who they will be and be proud of them. Just teach them there are all kinds of people in the world. Gay, Straight, Black or White we all live here together. Don't be afraid to have a real talk with your kids. If you don't teach them someone else will or something bad could happen. Teach them that no one is better than anyone else. No racism sadly parents pass their hate onto their kids. Nothing is worse than an ignorant racist spewing hate. Parents the way your kids behave and interact with the world. Is a reflection on your parenting and how you think. So think about that when you are teaching them something.

Walking Mattresses and Cum Sponges

They are still giving it away if you pay for it or not. Someone is always up to no good giving away Jawbone,Asshole,Pussy or Dick. They may not walk the streets at all hours of the night. But they are still hookers and peddle their used up flesh to the masses. Its funny to me when I see someone that is always online. Hooking up with someone say that their ass is tight. I can understand the if someone gets horny and wants some action. We are all human, I'm not talking about the regular folk. I'm talking about the cum sponges that are hooking up all the damn time. Has anyone ever had a hooker or porn star try to hook with them? They will say something along the lines of" I won't charge you" first of all. No one should have to pay for sex. I understand that straight men and women play that game. You spend money on me and take me to dinner. Then I will give you some pussy if you act right. That is still a hooker in my eyes you don't know that man. But if he buys you some Lobster and buttered bread. You will spread those legs and let him have the pussy. So it only cost him the price of a dinner to run up in those guts. That means that pussy is only worth sixty dollars or so. That's a damn street walker and it sad that woman fall for it. I know straight men don't get sex like a gay man does. So they are always thirsty for some pussy and it shows. They get excited over some used up dry broke down to the side pussy. In the gay world sex is on the menu first and a gay man will ask you right off the bat. If you are down with that sort of thing. Sleeping with a walking mattress then chances are you will be going to the clinic. Sadly I won't name any names but some of you are always looking to hookup.  Give that Jawbone, Asshole, and Dick some rest those parts will thank you for the down time. Again this town like many others are geared towards being single. I'm single but I'm not some cum sponge giving away all of my goods. Sex is right up in front in the gay community and its sad. Its all about being young and of course having sex. I'm not interested in twinks and I don't want to have sex with them. Of course these hookers watch porn and they want to be the main bitch. The spotlight is shinning right on their ass and its pushed up into the air. They want to be stuffed a both ends and begging for more. Bitch you are not the paid hooker in the film. You are just a broke down hooker that wants to be that paid hooker. You are wondering what a Cum Sponge is? Its someone that sucks up the cum and wants more. Men and women can be a cum sponge a woman will be the one having a baby by a one night stand. That is a straight cum sponge a gay one is the ones you see with cum dripping out of their assholes. Or they love to drink cum you see them posting ads up all the time. They love the taste and smell of cum and can't get enough. There is nothing wrong again with getting your groove on. The problem is when you can't count how many sex partners you have been with. If you don't know then Houston we have a fucking problem. You are certified a true Walking Mattress or Cum Sponge. We have plenty walking around this city and I'm sure in whatever city you live in.

Friends and Friendly People

Friends how many of us have them? Friends ones you can depend on? That is a word that has to be earned not just given because I like you. I'm not asking you to be anything other than what you are. Don't change for me or for anybody else. If you don't like what you see keep it moving. Life is hard and people are busy but still it takes some effort. To remain in contact and make time to talk or hang out. People get married and have kids (fucking breeders) get boyfriends and girlfriends. Still life goes on a new job may take someone out of the state. If someone is meant to be in your life they will be. Years can pass and they may not been seen or heard from for awhile. But they will pop up and be back ready to continue the friendship. For some of us going though something with someone should normally make you closer. Its something that will bond you with that person but its not always the case. Some friends we have are just work friends. We are friendly with them at work but that is as far as it goes. I had a friend that I was close with at work but we never did anything outside of work. Then I moved up to the Bay Area and never heard from that person ever again. So I see where being friends with someone at work can just be that. Some people like to keep their personal lives separated. I don't like people getting in my business, if I want you to know something I will tell you. I don't like people that are obvious about getting in my business. The bottom line with people we work with is they are our second family. If you like them or not you see them all the time and have to interact with them. Just like our real families we have people in them that we don't like. We love them but we don't like them at all. Same thing with work and more so because you work with all ages and people from all walks of life. Its a good learning tool for people that are close minded. They can see that in spite of it all we are all the same. We all eat, shit, and sleep and life goes on.