Friends and Friendly People

Friends how many of us have them? Friends ones you can depend on? That is a word that has to be earned not just given because I like you. I'm not asking you to be anything other than what you are. Don't change for me or for anybody else. If you don't like what you see keep it moving. Life is hard and people are busy but still it takes some effort. To remain in contact and make time to talk or hang out. People get married and have kids (fucking breeders) get boyfriends and girlfriends. Still life goes on a new job may take someone out of the state. If someone is meant to be in your life they will be. Years can pass and they may not been seen or heard from for awhile. But they will pop up and be back ready to continue the friendship. For some of us going though something with someone should normally make you closer. Its something that will bond you with that person but its not always the case. Some friends we have are just work friends. We are friendly with them at work but that is as far as it goes. I had a friend that I was close with at work but we never did anything outside of work. Then I moved up to the Bay Area and never heard from that person ever again. So I see where being friends with someone at work can just be that. Some people like to keep their personal lives separated. I don't like people getting in my business, if I want you to know something I will tell you. I don't like people that are obvious about getting in my business. The bottom line with people we work with is they are our second family. If you like them or not you see them all the time and have to interact with them. Just like our real families we have people in them that we don't like. We love them but we don't like them at all. Same thing with work and more so because you work with all ages and people from all walks of life. Its a good learning tool for people that are close minded. They can see that in spite of it all we are all the same. We all eat, shit, and sleep and life goes on.