Do you stay or Go?

If your in a bad situation do you stay or go? Love is one thing but can one live off of love? The answer is no you can't.. It takes a lot more than love to survive in a relationship.. I know  some people who will remain nameless but I will tell their stories.. One is in a relationship with a much older man and they don't have any sex what so ever. But he stays because he says he loves him. In the meantime he is unhappy and looking for a connection with someone. A nice passionate encounter would be ideal but... He is committed to his Husband. So he is kinda stuck which is sad. He should be happy right? Yes he should. We all deserve to be happy don't we? Yes we do, every relationship has it's ups and downs. Its suppose to be you and your mate against the world. But when Side Line Ho's step into the picture it makes things harder for you. Things would be much better if we all were honest with each other. But that's part of the game isn't it? If its that time to leave then leave. I know a lot of people who stay together for the kids sake. Just leave the kids will be hurt but ok. A loveless relationship is a recipe for disaster.

 Do you stay if he cheats? Hell to the NO you don't run fast. A man or woman for that matter will only do what you allow them to do. As I said in another Post ladies don't be dumb and let the man control you. Get a job or go to school. If someone is violent with you its time to go. It only takes once that should be enough for you to see. If you stay you deserve what you get. Don't be a damn fool and stay. People's true colors always end up showing in the end. No Dick or Pussy is worth any of that drama. Yes this is real talk and I use those words. I give it to you 100% real and always will. Sometimes it takes someone many years to get out but some do get out. Don't be one of those battered women. Walk out don't leave in a Pine Box.