Letting Go of the Past

We all have a past good or bad its still there. Most of us had a bad childhood and some of us move on. Some hold onto the pain of the past and its poison. A few people actually had a good childhood but most didn't. Experience is a good teacher and we should learn from our mistakes. Its easy to fall into the trap of carrying that negative energy around with us. Once you can see it for what it is you can get rid of it. Yes it may be true someone in our families hurt us or did something to us shady. We don't have to like our family  at all. We are stuck with them for life. That's why I live so far away from them. I can only take so much of family drama. Once you let go of the past you can begin to grow and blossom. Breaking the circle of whatever drama it is. Growing up with an alcoholic was no fun but I'm not here to judge those who drink. We all make our own beds and we have to lay in them. Instead of bitching about what's is wrong in your lives. Go out and make things better for you. Life is what you make it and its a whole world out there do see. If someone doesn't like you its fine. My grandmother says this" No matter if you do wrong or right they will always talk about you". Its true some people worry about what others say about them. I have never been one of those people. I have always marched to the beat of my own drum. Let go of the damn past and start living life instead of just being alive.