That warm and fuzzy feeling..

So as we all go on with our lives we are in and out of relationships. A good friend of mine just ended a five year relationship. I have been there and its not easy to end something. Another friend of mine is Speedy Gonzales. He moves at the speed of light. There is nothing wrong with having the warm fuzzy feeling. Its what you do with that feeling that matters. This friend just ended a relationship with his alcoholic boyfriend. He is a fish that loves that fire water. Well he isn't even out of that house yet. He met a new guy I will call Will and he seems to be sweet. I'm not a hater at all don't get me wrong. I was just trying to tell this friend that he should take things slowly. He may be feeling brand new but that is no reason to play the fool. I want what is best for all my friends and they know this. I'm an old soul and I have a lot of experience and know things. Well he has been dating this guy for two weeks. They have been together for most of that time which is sweet but. A candle burned at both ends will burn out fast. They are about to move in together and I think its a big mistake. He just got out of one relationship and BAM. He is already in a new one and he is feeling good. Still don't play the fool out right. I think you should get to know someone before you take that leap. Living with someone is a serious thing. Both of you are in each others space. One may be a slob or something worse you never know.  I think a good amount of time before you move in with someone is a year. After that its safe to say that you two are in love. Willing to take that next step into domestic bliss. Go for it and enjoy each other to the fullest. There is nothing like feeling that new feeling. Someone new is into you and wanting to know all about you. I have to say I hope things do work out for Speedy. He is like a young school girl that just got dick for the first time.  I have to say that another friend of mine is moving in the right direction and its a good thing. Him and his man have been together almost a year. They are going to wait for the year mark and then go from there. You have to think with your mind and not your heart only. Or you could end up regretting what you end up doing. In this day and age its hard to meet someone of substance. Most are out for hit and runs and they don't hide it. Men like to tell you what they think you want to hear. Just tell me the truth and I will be fine. The bottom line living with someone changes the dynamics of things. Some for good and some for well you know. It could take years for you to feel that feeling again. You can't run from it or hide from it. It will still be there if you want to deal with it or not.