Sperm Donors

Well with Father's day that was this past Sunday. I have to say that most father's don't deserve this holiday for them. What ever happened to Son's day or Daughter's day for that matter? Most of us grew up in a single parent household and we don't know what a father really is. Most father's are just sperm donors and nothing else at all. We may see them a few times in our lives. If we are lucky we don't get to see them at all. We just need to listen to our mother's tell us about how bad he was. A dog or player or whatever the case may be. Some go looking for their father's when they are grown. They usually become a victim of whatever their father can get from them. Wanting love but not really getting that at all. Just drama and empty promises made to us as kids or adults. Some do grow up with both parents and its no different really. He may be in the same house as you grew up in. But do you really have a real relationship with him? Can you actually have a conversation with him? I have friend's who's father's are just sperm donors. They don't talk to him open and honest. They bow down to him and the things that he likes. He may be an alcoholic or just a workaholic. Our mother's are the ones that suffer until they can break free of the drama. Some don't ever break free they have to look at his face and smell him every damn day. No matter what he may have done to her she stays. It could be because he talked her into a position of submission. She stays at home and he makes all the money. 1940's bullshit if you ask me. Just making a baby doesn't make you a father. Taking care of that baby and providing for that baby. That's a real father and he doesn't need any awards to say that its true. Just the smile on his child's face is enough for him. New laws need to be passed for these men that father this babies. Then they call the girl a whore and they end up on Maury. Yes you are the father its 99.9 percent. Still they won't take care of the child. Your relationship may end with the woman. But your child is still there and needs both parents if possible. Of course a woman can raise her kids on her own. But it would be better if the father was around to help out. Woman need to be smarter about who they sleep with because they could end up pregnant. Gay men we can fuck and walk away but not you women. Once you have a child you are stuck with his ass for the rest of both your lives.